Love help: tell me the truth what do you think of this speark your mind i dont know you you dont know me what can honesty hurt not my feelings. - Help.com

You have to stop thinking negative. Check this out
http://www.thesecret.tv/
watch it.

That is very sad. I feel for you. Is there anything you want to talk about?

Wow! I know exactly how you feel. I am fresh out of an 8 year high school sweet heart relationship, a relationship where her alcoholic behavior ended it all. My best advice is to chat it up either on this website or with good friends. I am finding that my thinking is not really negative, just a process of grieving for that which I have lost. It seems that my self-esteem has taken the biggest hit. I did everything I could, everything in my power, and it wasn’t enough. You are not alone. Let me know if you need anything.

Maybe you should go talk to someone. They could help you figure out why you feel this way. Sometimes having someone listen helps. Also, a counselor or someone can help give you ways to cope or how you can be happier. I was in the same place as you. In a matter of months I feel so much better now. I am still down, but not close to where I was. Think about it and if you ever need to talk I am here.

Hello,

I hope you don’t interpret this the wrong way, but if you are looking for guidance, you should consult the religious books. As a muslim, I would recommend you start with the Qur’an - you can see an English translation online, try this:

http://www.mysticletters.com/quran-vi…

Either start at chapter 1 or just pick any other at random, maybe you find an answer that is relevant to your situation at this time. Although I don’t know the exact specifics of your situation, but I feel like I can recognize the state of mind you are in, because I have been there, wandering back and forth in this strange world, and I found the guidance I needed from this book and the servants of God who lived by it.

If you want to talk about what you are going through right now, or have any questions about anything, feel free to get in touch - you can also leave a message in my shoutbox.

Take care and peace.

Tp2011,

I commented in the way that I did, because of what you said:

“i ask for forgiveness from the powers that be.i dont believe any one heard me.”

If someone did some evil act in God’s name, you should still not disregard God so easily. Place the blame where it is due.. with the people, not with God.

In the Book it is said:

(And when My servants ask you concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I respond to the du’a (prayer) of every suppliant when they call on Me - Quran 2:186)

I can understand if your experience of religion is less than positive, I hated it growing up too, people in so called authority who would be exerting their own desires and will upon others rather than teaching and sharing the goodness of the faith. But there came a point in my life when I got curious, I wanted to know what the books said and not just go by what the religious clerics were doing. That was when I started to find the answers I was looking for, and the knowledge of reality that made everything make sense. There is so much more to this world that our physical eyes are blind to. We need to look beyond appearances and the surface of things, we should go deeper.

Forget religion as a dogma or way of life, lets just talk. Do you have any topics in mind that interest you? What if I said that there have been people in this world that could travel vast distances, from one distant land to the next and back, all quicker than the twinkling of an eye. Could you believe it? :)

It’s good that you have an open mind about it, many people would just dismiss it as fantasy or madness. I don’t know any people personally who could do that, but I have certainly read about that phenomenon / ability. It completely changes the way you look at reality and the world.

Everything is interconnected. If we can’t see that, then we need to change our perspective and look after taking a few steps back. Someone said something along the lines of: a butterfly flapping it’s wings in the south of Brazil was linked with the tropical storm and monsoon over Asia. Or something like that, but I think the point is understandable.

What are your views about the world, and how it came to be? Tell me something about yourself.

Thanks for your answer. I can understand the things you described, and I find it interesting that you would mention your honest nature. Did something happen that has made you commit yourself to being truthful?

Do you believe this world is eternal, and has always existed, or that it has had a beginning and some greater Creative force that brought it in to existence? Even if you don’t think that is the case, or don’t have enough information to be sure, what is your gut instinct and feeling?

I don’t think we can kill ‘mother nature’, that would be arrogance on the part of humans. Sure, we can pollute and damage ecosystems and destroy lots of animals and make the quality of life for humans really terrible, but there is a tipping point, if we abuse the gifts of nature, the earth will literally starve us to our own destruction, and what the famine doesn’t finish off, there will be plenty of other natural disasters and phenomena that will complete the job. Eventually, animal life could re-emerge and prosper, and the balance of the weather and seasons would be restored. It would take some time, but in any case, humans would be out of the picture.

I don’t think it will come to that though, but there will be hardship ahead if we continue this greed, because we are disrupting the balance.