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I have been in long-term relationship and he is great and we have been really happy but I am in school and he moved to live near me.

Recently he has been down and I feel responsible for his happiness and guilty when he isnt doing well. I have felt like I am window shopping and even though i am not flirting with other guys I have been de-emphasizing how serious my relationship is. I dont know if its just because I have a lot on my plate right now and im stressed or if its a bigger problem

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BizWiz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

you should try spicing it up a little. Guys are usually pretty easy to figure out. Plan a romantic evening and surprise him with it. He might just want some extra attention. We have a lot of security issues, and that one romantic evening can fill those tanks.

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Kalos offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

In the long run, no one can make you happy. Happiness is something that comes from within. It is an attitude of gratefulness. Are you grateful for this relationship?

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