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I want to love again.

I miss the feeling of free-falling, wrapped in love so deep and true it must be right..right? Now I am married and alone. Bruised from the impact of my fall. We went from reading each others thoughts, to not being able to understand what is trying to be said. Part of me wants to mend and the other wants to run away. this hurts…

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

married and alone?
how so?

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Mayor offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 166 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

I totally understand bro. I have no advice to give I just wanted to let you know I understand. I’ve been there.

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dream.seeker.8 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

Married and Alone = we can’t spend 10 min. w/ each other without it turning sour. We used to be best friends. Now I am online throwing my feelings into the “web” hoping for ?

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BizWiz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

I agree, but remember that is just one side of love. Love brings out the worst in a person, and if you truly love them, you work through the person that love turns them into. The downsides of love are rarely mentioned cause most people haven’t seen a long enough relationship to understand it, but just know, Love isn’t all its cracked up to be.

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optimismiles offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

cheer up.
believe in good karma.
do good, good will return.
go with the flow and i hope that you’ll find a path of more filling happiness.

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**OO*i love you*OO** offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (49 minutes after post)

It seems the more we know a persons flaws, the more we start to resent them. that seems to me the case with every long term relationship i see, and i wish we could all just love the person we were once in “love”with–with the same audacity and passion that led us, or them to get married, or completely give our heart to.

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tomstar offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 hours after post)

yes this would hurt mate, but can i ask,
do you think/feel that you have lost yourself now?

do you know who you are now that you are in this relationship?

do you feel different then the time you got married?

what is it that has changed, which has created this condition in your marriage?

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seah1 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

If you are married to that person then forget the hurts….give the person respect and love…..!

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