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Good Will Statement?

Good Will, as described in wikipedia, is a term referring to making correct decisions in reference to other people.

I have to make a good will statment as a begining speach my ex and i are required to read before discussing our issues about raising our daughter in out first ‘joint’ meeting since begining the process.
While I have a very good understanding of what its to be about, I like to do my research thouroughly in order to do the best job i can, this is very important as its to ease us into discussions about our daughter which at the moment is a highly toxic situation so I need to make my words clear and to the point, im not looking for advice in writing it, this is my job to do and my thoughts that need to be heard, but i cant find any good sites that discuss writing a good will statement, id like to look at all aspects of it, including family relations to get a good handle on what im doing but can only find that one wikipedia term in google, does anyone know any good sites that can help me research this further?…….soz for the rambling, lol :)

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BizWiz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Is it officially called a good will statement? Cause I am searching for some stuff and can’t find anything containing it.

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Morgan offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

no, its a philsophical term, thats what makes it a bit harder, i dont think they have an actual word for it, this is a new system brought in this year, a last stitch attempt to get families to do the right thing, and apparantly its been working really well, only 5% have been going to court, but the mediator has made it clear that we may just be in that 5% which is why this will be so important, its the last time we can try to get his right, i need it to be in a way that keeps him calm and hopefully give him motivation to make a genuine effort

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Morgan offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

the only thing i can find on it……
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Good_Will_(philosophy)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

I’m kinda confused. You need to write a speech to be read aloud at the next gathering of yourself, your ex, and this mediator guy. And you want it to inspire your ex to help raise your daughter, but keep him calm at the same time. Is that the jist of it?

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Morgan offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 hours, 19 minutes after post)

pretty much, if he doesnt find some inspiration i fear she loses a good relationship with her dad, to be honest hes not fit to be making any paranting decisions atm, as u would see if u have look back at the last couple of posts ive made, so thats a no brainer, however, i do still wish for our daughter to develop a good relationship with him and it wont happen if he remains on the path hes on now, this ’speech’ is a must, as a part of the new system implemented nationwide, thats trying to install inspiration to all families, and i really want to give it my all for hope of a brighter future for her.
any questions about the system can be found here http://www.familyrelationships.gov.au, although it doesnt go through what ur taught and what u have to do much in there, this is just what its about

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 hours, 24 minutes after post)

oh and its not just one mediator, it was actually meant to be a woman - our case worker - but shes asking for a second mediator to join in because this one is going to be difficult and shes worried about doing it alone, so you can see why its important i give it my one last best shot for her

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Maybe you can search handling good communications well

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

good idea seah1, thanxs for the tip
Im actually about to post what I have done so far just to get a feel of how people veiw it, its important i feel that its not intimidating and see how well it opens communication

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

Oh, I’m happy that at least I’ve given you a good idea. God bless your work,

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