hurt help: I trying to get over my ex. - Help.com

It’s normal. Time heals. I’ve been there and i felt the same way too. Now, im glad its all over and he is out of my life. Moving on is hard when the wounds are fresh but give yourself time to heal. u will get there! When you are there, he’s no longer significant.

The reason why he did this is because he is pathetic and useless. He doesnt know love like u do. U deserve better!

He received this box and when he opened it, it was full of responsibility. Caring for another person besides himself, being by her side no matter what, putting her needs before his needs. So he took plight.

You do deserve better. Like my aunt told me years ago “you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a real prince.”

In the days ahead you will at the very least salvage your pride and the joy inside you will grow more and more not having to deal with his pathetic attitude towards you.

I am probably not the best person to tell you what to do. I have never been cheated on or have never cheated on somebody, but I do know that when you loose respect in a relationship, it could be violence or been cheated on more than once, the relationship will never be the same, it just has no value at all… trust he will never stop because you forgave him a few times already he will think that you will do the same each time so he feels like he can do whatever he wants because you will always forgive him. Think about you, there are guys who truly can respect you as a woman and respect your feelings and you shouldn’t be taking all that bull crap from him, he does not deserve you. You deserve better than that… we all do.

He’s is just a ruthless jerk and probably quite young. If you seek the company of other friends and then find someone else that’s special to you, I think he will get the message loud and clear.

Could you speak to his mother stating that you want him to steer clear of you? You have some rights living in the house as he does. Tell thim when he states that he doesn’t want you, that he is liar. That he is always in your face and won’t leave you alone when no one is around.

Hun, you have to protect yourself and speak up for yourself. Get busy creating other friendships with people outside of the house so you have some place to go to.