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My partner broke up with me because of religious beliefs

shes jehovahs and im not and we also had a child together and hes only 3mths old who we named after my late father and although its hard i love my son but it hurts cause i dont get to have him here with me as well as that she has big brothers who have bet me up and smashed my cars up because of pure jealousy and still no apology. The irony of it is her and her family picks when to use there religion when it suits them. Im thinking of Leaving the country because i cant live here and watch her enjoy life with our son and new boy friend while i sit here misserable. ps we only been broken up a week, to top that of my mothers fallen ill now i take it from missing my Dad just gets worse every day. Her family never liked me since day one when they found out she was pregnant they started liking me ntee me to marry her so i brought rings etc. Ive started geting deeply deepresd crying and stuff cant turn it off. Help me

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freespirit_money offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 hours, 44 minutes after post)

awww…thats all so really very sad… if u think u can change ur place do that… bcoz environment change always helps…. get to meet someone new…u’ll sure get over it… tell her u can be happy too… shout me if u want :)

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tiago-londo offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 hours, 47 minutes after post)

You are feeling the way you are feeling because every thing happened recently. Personally I think she didnt leave because of her religion only, some women just like some men can be very inconsiderate sometimes. People are finding easier and easier excuses to break up with their partners hoping they can find a better one, someone who has more money, more goodlooking, etc, etc. My advice for you would be to take this opportunite to find sometime for your self. Im sure you will find someone one day and who loves you for who you are. Now about your son, keep in touch with him and when he is older he will be able to understand what’s happened and dont worry you will have fun with him just as much as you want to ( more quality time because when you see him you will miss him so much that you wont waste a sec). If you need someone to talk to just message me. ;)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 hours, 39 minutes after post)

tiago-londo wrote:
You are feeling the way you are feeling because every thing happened recently. Personally I think she didnt leave because of her religion only, some women just like some men can be very inconsiderate sometimes. People are finding easier and easier excuses to break up with their partners hoping they can find a better one, someone who has more money, more goodlooking, etc, etc. My advice for you would be to take this opportunite to find sometime for your self. Im sure you will find someone one day and who loves you for who you are. Now about your son, keep in touch with him and when he is older he will be able to understand what’s happened and dont worry you will have fun with him just as much as you want to ( more quality time because when you see him you will miss him so much that you wont waste a sec). If you need someone to talk to just message me. ;)

Yeah but im the kind off guy that wsnts to see his son grow up :-(. I just want him with me. I dont need her anymore cause if i meant nethink to her a couple days after we broke up she wouldnt be with this other buster. She told me she was pregnant again also.T%he thing about her is that she before i came around had tons of bfs and cheated on all of them but stopped when we met we were together 3yrs and she was faithful to the best of my knowledge but she constantly believed daT I WOULD CHEAT ON HER???? WHICH NEVER HAPPEND!!! She was quite unsecure. Thye crasy thing is that her mum won the lotto which is against her religion than two weeks later she dumps me and is with this other guy??? Why do things like that happen to mean bad people??? Am i in the wrong??? I just dont want my son growing up around that stuff and them planting there little seed……….. i want to teach him moraless and honor not lies and deciet……..

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 4 weeks after post)

hello my fellow . My name is garry and your life eperience has make me think of this type of situation I refuse to feel sorry for you because in some way that implies you have lost. You have a son that is part of you , and f i may say one thing , ys maybe u r with frustration in this moment but take comfort that your child is half of you and if you tell the truth to us - half from you thereforea person with deeep feelings and caring. This point that i make may seem small to you right now but believe me , take comfort in it if you can that boy will love you so - be strong for him be the father that u are and be there for him when he needs you and trust me if you show him love and be accessible you will be involved in his life . I understand the problem of wanting to see him grow and the truth is there are laws that unfortunately make life difficult for fathers but i say and i mean this with all my heart ” not imposible” keep your good heart when you speak with your ex because deep down in her heart she wants her son to respect her father. i hope my words can give u small comfort. My name is garry email > i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> send me a mail if u need a sound board.

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