lg15331 wrote:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4gEt6p…
this is a funny video it might help. but why are you sad if you would like to talk about if not hope the video helps
My friends want nothing to do with me. My best friend who is also my crush has been ignoring me and I don’t know why. My other friends just run off whenever I try and talk to them…half of them are mad at me because I was accused of saying something about this girl that I would never say anything bad about.
Hey RainDancer, what’s up? Here it is right smack in the middle of the night where I am, and we are both up. :o|
What’s bothering you so much,love?
Oh I see your reply ^^^ up there, sorry…….
well im sorry to hear about your friends being like that im sure you told them you didnt say anything about it try and find out where it all started that might help
++edie++ wrote:
Hey RainDancer, what’s up? Here it is right smack in the middle of the night where I am, and we are both up. :o|What’s bothering you so much,love?
I have been up in the middle of the night for weeks. I just can’t sleep anymore. I am so confused about everything. I honestly never did anything to anybody. I just don’t get why everybody hates me.
lg15331 wrote:
well im sorry to hear about your friends being like that im sure you told them you didnt say anything about it try and find out where it all started that might help
I know where it started. This Girl that I hardly know told this other girl that I was saying bad things about her online. Then they told other people and so on and so forth. I have told everybody that I have never said anything about anybody and that I would never. They believe it is all just a cover. Whatever.
Ahh, that sucks. Well just let it pass and do what you’ve been doing. It may be hard, but there’s no other way to really get around it. As you get to know people they’ll see what you’re really like.
Aw, RainDancer—sometimes when we can’t sleep, our thoughts get all messed up.And sometimes we think that things are all really just gone bad.
If I can ask, how old are you, RainDancer?
I LOVE your screen name!
I’ve had this exact thing happen to me before.
You know SHE SAID and then it goes on forever after that.
Just try to take it easy on yourself.
You’ve got yourself all tied up in knots.
So much that you can’t even sleep.
What do you like to do, besides be online I mean.
sounds like the everyday drama that goes on just ignore them for a little while maybe try to hang with a new crowd for awhile
lg is absolutely right. Sounds like a new bunch of friends is much needed right now.People who can make you feel good about you.
++edie++ wrote:
lg is absolutely right. Sounds like a new bunch of friends is much needed right now.People who can make you feel good about you.
well thank you i have a good thought every now and then.
LOL well you sure nailed it this time, lg!!!
Not everyone hates you. You don’t know everyone and everyone including myself dosn’t know you. Lay down and imagine 10 people in your room you dont know. Imagine them all friendly and smiling no agendas people who are just glad to meet you and listen to what ever you say, people that you enjoy listening to. Now imagine 100 of them. Imagine 1000. Imagine 100000. There are that many people and more out there right now. Social circles are nothing more than circles. They feed off each other. Probably one person has take exception to you and all the rest of your friends are just jumping on board. Step out of that circle without any animosity or hurt feelings and meet some other great people. Meet them in person. Join a club or activity, learn an instrument. Whatever. Do something you dont normally do. That’s how all adventures start.
PS Meeting people on computers is not the same.
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++edie++ wrote:
Aw, RainDancer—sometimes when we can’t sleep, our thoughts get all messed up.And sometimes we think that things are all really just gone bad. If I can ask, how old are you, RainDancer?I LOVE your screen name!I’ve had this exact thing happen to me before.You know SHE SAID and then it goes on forever after that.Just try to take it easy on yourself.You’ve got yourself all tied up in knots.So much that you can’t even sleep.What do you like to do, besides be online I mean.
I am 14. So yeah the age of Drama…but I am so not used to it. It’s usually me at the end of the drama not the middle of it. My best friends never get in drama either so it’s new to me.
What do I like to do? Mainly everything…majorly…listen to music and watch movies.
i’m in a similar situation. i’ve just lost a few friends for no reason. she just stopped talking to me when she was the one that hurt me in the first place.
i’ve just decided that she’s not worth my while if that’s how she’s going to treat me.
i think we need to get out there & try find some nice, quality friends.
i understand though. it’s so confusing & frustrating & very upsetting. i feel helpless in my situation - tried to patch things up etc. except then i realised it’s no good for me to be around those types of people.
You’ll never honestlly get used to it im still not but if you try and remain positive and dont let them get to you to much then it will be easier. Put in your favorite movie or music group that cheers you up and just fall asleep with it on in the back ground it will help take your mind off everything. the drama will always pass and the ones who are your true friends will be there for you in the end and all the way thru it youll lose some and thats part of it. just try and find something to do to escape it all make sure its something healthy.
Well, I don’t really think that 14 is necessarily the age of drama.
But I do think that you are a really sensitive person.You just really care alot, is all. You care about what people are thinking and feeling.And that doesn’t make you any sort of drama queen or anything.That just makes you a really good person.And people around you probably will see that and want to be your friend.
Believe me,RainDancer—this will pass.You’ll get it together with a bunch of great people like yourself and you’ll start sleeping again. And then things will fall into place.
Please don’t waste your time and life with people who will spread nasty little rumors about you. They just are not worth it.
You have so much to offer others.
Honestly, like I don’t think I am so sad because I have lost friends, what bothers me is that I have no idea why I can’t fix things. For the most part I don’t care if people like me or not…if they don’t want to like me so be it but I don’t want it to be because of something i didn’t do.
there isnt a whole lot you can do to change what people think and sadlly enough they will agree with people just get in to the “cool crowd” or whatever just let it go and trust that it will blow over
lg15331 wrote:
there isnt a whole lot you can do to change what people think and sadlly enough they will agree with people just get in to the “cool crowd” or whatever just let it go and trust that it will blow over
Alright. I am going to try and call it a night…I am off for the night.
the most frustrating thing about your situation it seems is that you didn’t do anything to deserve this - & also can’t do anything to help fix the situation.
but if they don’t even let you try defend your case then they’re not worth it
Take it easy, RainDancer. We’ll be here if you need us. :O)
Hope ur as smart as u were now. :)
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