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First off congrats to you for kicking that cuttung habit. Gaining your self respect again is to also be commended. You and your boyfriend fighting is a bad thing. If he is throwing you out, then I think that a big red flag, on telling you what you have to do. He would be history. If he is able to do that, what else is he capable of doing. Please do what you have to, but call it quits with this guy. If he was worth keeping, he would exibit more caring ways towards you. We teach others how to treat us, I would be done, and find someone who will love, and appreciate you, not throw you out. That’s good to talk things out. Gives you a better perspective on things. Talk away. We all will help you along these sad, and lonely times. We all can relate that’s for sure :)

You have come a long way, I’m glad to hear of someone being able to do what you have done…

Pretty much what seas light just said, darn, beat me to it.

I am glad you have are done with the cutting and any form of self harm. Have your friends back. When you are in a relationship it does not mean that you won’t be able to go out with them anymore. Most guys still flirt when they are in a relationship. Well it might mean nothing to them but as a sign of respect to you i would think he should avoid saying those to other women to avoid hurting you….if ever you have mentioned to him that you feel uncomfortable with it.

I also suggest giving space from each other for some time.

Don’t let the green-eyed monster take control. If he wanted with someone else, he would be with them. Learn to pick your battles wisely, or else things can quickly get out of control. Be confident in yourself, and don’t sweat the small things. Rise above all the nonsense, as life is too short for pettiness. Both of you should have a day to yourselves, that way, you will appreciate each other more that way. Seriously, none of us would want to be with someone that no one else finds attractive right ? Re-think your priorities, and all the best to you and yours :)

So you are stressed. He is too. I realize i see small things as big problems and i also get jealous with stuff like that especially if it’s about other girls. I also have major jealousy issues. But when i am done talking about it with him, i feel a lot better and i realize later there was nothing to worry about.

Talk to him and remind him about you not being comfortable about it. He will remember it now and he will forget about it later. But that is his trait don’t try to change him. (i am guilty of that too). But appreciate the things he does my dear.

It will be okay.

xlittle.misfit wrote:
thank you guy’s all so much for everything just talking about this makes me feel so much better!

That is why i love this site. You are welcome :)

:)

Try to include some fun into your relationship. When we have a lot of things on our plate, job, school, etc. we tend to forget how to have just plain fun. Life can seem like a drudge and its up to us to make it different by making our time with our significant other an enjoyable one.

You appear to be a loner so to change that invite more friends over, a few at a time and just watch TV and hangout. Or the two of you think of more things to do together. Go for walks in the park, etc.