If the girl is a friend of your date, it can. Else no way.
ehm.. no, pay attention to the person your dating no t some other person, how do you think that makes your date feel.. unwanted that your not interested.. why would you do that to your date. its no nice and definitely a no-no for dating.
That is just plain rude, and hurtful. so not acceptable under any circumstances!
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That is just plain rude, and hurtful. so not acceptable under any circumstances!
exactly, its very hurtful. it makes your date think youd rather not be with him. so don’t ever do it.
yeah that’s what i thought. except there were 2 girls who i wasnt dating but had spent time tgether with and who were flirting with me.
Both started dirty dancing with a friend and I felt a bit odd and wasnt v talkative after. They sensed that, and one left. The other was annoyed at me for leaving after that (it was 2am). It spoiled everybody’s night
yeah i just wanted to know… situation was that we werent dating but had spent time together doing stuff together. She started dirty dancing last night with a friend and got upset that I wanted to leave afterwards
greenie wrote:
yeah i just wanted to know… situation was that we werent dating but had spent time together doing stuff together. She started dirty dancing last night with a friend and got upset that I wanted to leave afterwards
so do you like her? she wasn’t dating so hasn’t broken any rules, ask her out im sure she would behave differently if you were dating.
it’s kind of complicated. I really like this girl who lives on the other side of the world. But she lives .. on the other side of the world. But i think she’s the one.
These other two i think like me.. but i dont feel the same way as the other girl I know
Still, I felt weird- I dont know why I was so upset they dirty danced with another guy(who was already taken). So I just wanted to know what people thought of it. His girlfriend wasnt there
his girlfriend wouldnt have been happy, you like them if you get upset about it.. ask them out, your friend lives on the other side of the world… you are not a couple so your ok to date, enjoy yourself. this other girl on the other side of the world if you ever get the chance to meet her then do so, but for now concentrate on these girls that you like, go out on dates you might get to like them even more.
truth is I feel like i’m cheating on this other girl by even dating anyone else. I think this other relationship has real potential even though all we do is email and speak on the phone. I have met her once…
really appreciate your opinion, but i cant feel one way and act another.. if you met this other girl-seriously.. she’s amazing
i have a girl i feel is right, but i cant be with her and she lives an hours bus journey away. it kills me to think i cant ever be with her but i know its the right thing to do to get on with my life.. if you really like this girl, then thats fine, but dont let it get in the way of your life. how old are you, if you dont mind me asking.
im not gonna dirty dance, period.
I’m 34 years old-lol I dont mind.
I think i’m a late starter because i worry a lot about infidelity-and I’ve experienced it and seen too much of it so when i see someone dirty dancing it rings alarm bells
I’m surprised about the hours bus journey though. U feel that’s too far? or is there something else?
If feel like you’re cheating on this girl who lives on the other side of the world and you want to date another girl who lives near you then you should talk to her about it, it might make you feel better…or worse.
greenie wrote:
I’m 34 years old-lol I dont mind.
I think i’m a late starter because i worry a lot about infidelity-and I’ve experienced it and seen too much of it so when i see someone dirty dancing it rings alarm bells
I’m surprised about the hours bus journey though. U feel that’s too far? or is there something else?
its everything else, shes only an hour away but i cant ever go back to her, she broke my heart, cheated on me after getting drunk. and now shes with that guy, id love to have her back but its not right for me even tho i do still love her.
Ah, that’s it. Well getting over someone isnt easy (even if you never dated in my case apparently). I feel for ya..and so many others too. Surprised to hear you say you still love her..
greenie wrote:
Ah, that’s it. Well getting over someone isnt easy (even if you never dated in my case apparently). I feel for ya..and so many others too. Surprised to hear you say you still love her..
i don’t know why i still do, but i do.. im getting on with my life but i would be much happier with her, even tho its the wrong thing and i know it, it was one stupid immature moment and it was all over. was hard to take. now i have no contact with her if i did i would never get over her. its really hard to take but thats life.
Yeah I know it’s a bit of a cliche but i see it a lot. I have quite a strong sense of justice so if someone cheats i’d never get over it, even if i got back together with them. It would just prolong the agony.
I seriously know people trapped in long term maladaptive emotionally abusive relationships, just because they would rather be in a relationship with someone rather than no-one.
It’s tough but good on you for being strong. A lot of guys dont get credit for that-girls have their mates to tell them that all the time. But seriously, it’s never easy, and dont ever think she broke up with the guy that you are now after overcoming all of that. That sort of thing can break men into pieces
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