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i dont know what to do and i need help!

!! my life is so stressful and i need some downtime. i am a slacker and a procrastinater. i always wait until the last minute before i do something that im suppose to do. it doesnt help that im lazy.

im in college and im takin 5 classes. they are really stressful and i have alot of work to do for them. the end of the semester ends on dec. 13th and everything is piling up. i cant handle it.

im in karate and i dont want to, but im still in it. i help teach, and i am on the demo team.

i have so many personal problems like my social anxiety disorder. i deal with some sort of problem everyday.

i cant handle my life

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

sometimes i feel as though i cant handle my life. sometimes i think it would be better for me if i were dead. i would NEVER kill myself though. i hate my life. im always stressed. i get pissed over the stupidest things. im shy and i wish i werent. ive talked about my problems on here before, but nothing ends up helping me.

i dont know what to do.

i really need to get away from everything and everyone for awhile, but have no time to do that.

what can i do???

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Vince.Omeg offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Drop some classes and go part time. College can be pretty rough if you got a lot of other things going on.

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

im not gunna drop any classes now, but im gunna cut back to 4 classes next semester. and im never happy either. im not depressed, but it seems like nothing ever goes my way. my life is horrible

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emeraldcreekandbroke offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Oh hun, I know exactly how you feel. I’ve got five classes as well. And the biggest problem is a big essay due really soon. Do you have aim? You wanna talk?

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

its raciallykonfuzed

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pink sparkle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day after post)

Buy a planner and make a daily schedule of things you need to do and things that you want to do. That way, you can evaluate as to the reasonableness of the activity (like if you can afford to slack, or you need more time on the subject). Also, this makes you see how much time you have for study, resting, and for doing nothing. You can manage your time properly and it keeps you on track and on-time to beat deadlines. Stick to the schedule.

Don’t forget to include rest and enjoyment because, you’d burn out without these ingredients. Make sure that study is your priority though.

As to personal problems (like social anxiety disorder), would seeing a professional help work?

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

ive tried keepin a planner, but i eventually stop. i need it to be organized, cuz it bothers me when things arent perfect and when its sloppy, i dont bother with it.

seeing a professional would work, but i dont have the money to pay for one right now.

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pink sparkle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

Ok so you keeping a planner doesn’t work. How about asking somebody ‘write” the planner for you? My friend used to do it. I love to organize and make schedules. Since my friend and I are in the same classes,same projects and deadlines, I make the schedule, she copies it and makes a few revision to suit to her lifestyle.

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