Love help: I need help guys my girlfriend broke up because i made mistakes many mistakes first i drop out of high school then i lied to her. - Help.com

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elusive_creature wrote:
Dude think about it… You say you really care about her and that you love her.. Take responsibility for your actions, actions speak louder than words also get your G.E.D. get ready for college so that you can actually afford to take care of her.

i know dude actually im going back to school but i did study for my ged i even took practice test’s online and nail them all and im getting a job right now working in the plumbing business with my nephews dad so im doing 1 thing at a time i am making money right now as a baby sitter……for now but yeah

Barbyman wrote:
before being sorry you have to grow up first .I would drop you to ..

I would drop me too honestly but im getting things done that need to be done. So besides the getting job and ged what should i do

elusive_creature wrote:
my friend you cannot rush things like this you cant tell her you have to show her that you have changed and that may take some time (but make sure that you change for yourself and not for her)

Barbyman wrote:
Good on you.Thats the first step .I knew you had it in you..

Thanks guys and i know what you mean elusive creature just im afraid to lose her for the rest of my life she made me feel like we where going to be together forever she thought that too but she totally lost it for me because im just some imature *** hole this girl was everything to me and i lost her because i drop out and after that she got mad at me and hated me afterwards doing that i got mad because i was slowly fixing things and doing things right for once then she didnt want to be with me anymore because i lied about small things like i told her i made her a video about how much she means to me so today i came over presented it to her then she told me shes out with another guy but she loves more and everything but she’s scared to get back together because of what i did

elusive_creature wrote:
best way to let her now you have changed is to show her girls like hearing how things will be different and better but girls love it when you show them how it will be different and better… Best of luck bud

thanks man will do i hope this works out if not i appreciate the advice

elusive_creature wrote:
just go into it knowing you are a better person and win or lose you hold your head high for doing that much

yeah man your right im starting to like this site more and more.

yeah i kinda feel a little bit better now

elusive_creature wrote:
Its a great site to get advice share a story of inspiration and to help just calm yourself down

yeah

elusive_creature wrote:
as long as you are feeling better than this site has done its job

elusive_creature wrote:
as long as you are feeling better than this site has done its job

got another question what do you think if Friday my girl shows up and i make a video saying things will be different and how i feel and how im sorry about what i did and play it when she shows up with some music in the video as well then make it fancy in my room and stuff then once the video is done i show her the ring good or bad idea?

elusive_creature wrote:
well you dont want to over welm her you know its not a bad idea but you want to show her just be yourself (since im assuming thats how she fell for you in the first place lol) But tell her that you have made a change to better your life and you can give her the video and say you can watch this whenver you want so she doesn feel pressured or anything and put the ball in her court so its her move and that way you will know

Dude you are awesome i swear your probably gave me more advice that’s better then my friends lol

Yeah I understand what you mean you just did things to change yourself to make your self happier and better im sorry to hear that it didn’t work but if you became a better person then i will i hope….but im sure if i put my mind to it

elusive_creature wrote:
Well bud i can relate I lost a girl do to my certain habits i had and i decided to make a change it hasn been easy it didnt work out in the end but i became a better person for it

elusive_creature wrote:
Well bud i can relate I lost a girl do to my certain habits i had and i decided to make a change it hasn been easy it didnt work out in the end but i became a better person for it

oh i was wondering do you have a good song of your choice for this situation i could put in this video if you do please suggest i need something that says that ill change and things will be different

Thanks man yo check out this song i wrote for her but i cant play the guitar lol wish dammit but any who check it out

I tried so hard to make it right
But I don’t quite understand
How I’m supposed to feel

I tried so hard to break free
From your broken melody
But when I close my eyes
It’s you I hear

And I know that I was wrong
In doing what I’ve done
But I couldn’t stop
what I had begun

And it feels so
And I know that I’m to blame
But it feels so

What if I said I’m sorry
Would you still believe me
After all the lies I fed you
And all I put you through

I lost sight of what we had
The hours we spent in bed
All that ever was
And all that could have been

And I know that I was wrong
In doing what I’ve done
But I couldn’t stop
what I had begun

And it feels so
And I know that I’m to blame
But it feels so

And it feels so
And I know that I’m to blame
But it feels so
Wrong and right are all the same

It just feels so wrong

elusive_creature wrote:
I am a better person for it… and for the song you could go with I Miss You by Incubus or Yellow by Coldplay, maybe even Wonder Wall by Oasis

I know I gave her the song i wrote to her but i cant play music lol if only i had help dammit wait this site is for help lol

elusive_creature wrote:
Dude if it was me i would go with this instead of a movie

I know I gave her the song i wrote to her but i cant play music lol if only i had help dammit wait this site is for help lol

I like to right songs but i cant play instruments and here’s another song i wrote

Underneath the waves I feel you pulling me down
Like a deadweight trying to get me to drown
Clouds hang over a once silent sky
And I can’t reach the shore no matter how hard I try

I never did protect you
I was trying to perfect you
I never thought you’d make it on your own

I don’t know where we go from here
Paralyzed by all my fear
I guess we’re stuck and I don’t know what to do
Though I would never mind being stuck with you

I never did protect you
I was trying to perfect you
I never thought you’d make it on your own

Well I guess I’m sorry
For all I’ve said
And all I’ve done
For messing with your head
Yeah I’m sorry
For what I tried
For all I hide
For all my lies
Yes I’m sorry
But sorry is not enough

I know that it’s cold outside
I left you freezing in the night
I don’t have the will to keep you warm
Abandoned you in this raging storm

I never did protect you
I was trying to perfect you
I never thought you’d make it on your own

Well I guess I’m sorry
For all I’ve said
And all I’ve done
For messing with your head
Yeah I’m sorry
For what I tried
For all I hide
For all my lies
Yes I’m sorry
I’m so sorry
So sorry

But sorry will never be enough

elusive_creature wrote:
My friend you have alot to offer and it shows in your writting dont let yourself become destracted by world that holds no bars or morals show your true self to this girl and if she cant see that you have changed and are now a better person you will know that it was not ment to be and that there are bigger and better things waiting for you…. but i must go to bed now it is 420am here but drop me a line and let me know how it went…Best of luck bud

alright man and thanks once again