dad help: my dad has told every one…even people i dont know, about my eatting disorder. - Help.com

well you just told everyone on the internet. ;) I think he is just trying to help. It can’t be unsaid now so you kinda have to make due, but maybe you can let him know for future reference you don’t like your private information told to everyone.

What kind of relationship do you have with your father?

He is in no state to be raising you. He needs a lot of help.
You do not “just have to deal”.
Have you told anyone close to you about what goes on at home?

Tiff Tiff wrote:
we have good moments but thats it.
he is abusive verbally and physically and he is a drug addict

yeah, that is rough. I would take yourself out of that position. This really adds a whole new level to this. I wouldn’t go around telling everyone that. Call DCFS. You know, this is almost too touchy for me to give advice too.

Tiff Tiff wrote:
yeshe tells them that im sick and made it up cuz im anerexic and apparently need attention.

That’s not the way a father should act. I hope you know this. All children need attention!! He’s the one denying you positive attention
He really shouldn’t be saying it this way at all.

Do you have other family members aroound

wow, that sucks. I would tell the most embarrassing sotry to everyone LOL like someone said above. You know what though? You are overcoming it aren’t you? And that’s something you should be proud of. I’m sorry your dad is telling everyone though :(

Want to come live with me?

do you think you will be better without him? Are you sure you want to do something about it.. think seriously, and then, do it. But if it’s a bad moment now, that you’re going thruth, just try to think if the things you just said are true. cause you just said he is abusive. hello. but Don’t look at this situation like something normal, because it is not. I am a big girl, and my mother has the same problem, even to my boyfriend, she used to telling what to do about me, and staff like that… she said to me, it’s me, i’m mom, so relaxe, take it easy, but i moved out, and things are over.

I miss you, she says, but … i am glad to have my own life in privacy.

Be strong baby girl, don’t let him break you down. you and i both know that you can and will make it while leaving him far behind. i believe in you