Love help: I was 4 weeks away from the birth of our 2nd son when my husband of 8 years told me he didn’t love me anymore and he had someone else.

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I was 4 weeks away from the birth of our 2nd son when my husband of 8 years told me he didn’t love me anymore and he had someone else.

I was living 1600 miles away from any family. The day I came home from the hospital he had moved his stuff out. I ended up moving to be with family and feel sad, confused, lost. I have a 2 year old and a newborn. My husband doesn’t answer my calls and if I do talk to him he is mean. Couldn’t I be the one angry??

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spiritedsoul 4 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

yes u have every reason to be angry. but guess what? ur better off without him. why want to be with someone like that?
seriously, im sure u have been blessed with two beautiful children and live ur life without him. its tough bringing up children on ur own but im sure u can do it. get support and im sure u can find someone new! x

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

wow, The best thing you can do is forgive him. Nothing will make this easy. It is hard and It will be hard, it is life. Crapy things happen to good people. Im sorry to hear what has happened to you. Be thankfull that you have family to go to. But you need to forgive him, even though it is the opposite of what you probably feel needs to be done.even If he doesnt ask for it.

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Fuzzy Pepper 65 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

wow. How horrible.

I would say that the best thing is to just move on and forget him. However, he is a father and you two share a bond for quite a while now. That makes it hard. And he doesn’t know what he is missing by leaving his family.

My advice would be to try, for the sake of your children, to heal as quickly as possible….I know….that’s almost like asking the impossible, especially with all the hormonal things going on in your body right now.

Get into counseling; find strength within yourself; make some new friends; and love your children with all the love in your heart that you would show to them AND him.

One day, you will realize that life is “livable” again. It will take time; but it will happen.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

is there any reason FOR him to be angry? it sounds like he KNOWS that he did you wrong and by instead being sorry and giving into you and your children’s needs, he is acting angry and throwing a bit of a tantrum instead of coming to terms with the person that he has become. did he explain why, other than he found someone else? thats very random… im sorry to hear this.

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sjg42 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 34 minutes after post)

he’s angry because I wouldn’t give him space. I was 4 weeks away from having a baby with no family around and I was suppose to give him space!! He said I was controling and he never lived the life he wanted. He’s now with a girl that has 3 kids of her own.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 hours, 29 minutes after post)

he is just a jerk i am sorry this happened to you. I hope that you will find someone like i did who is there for your kids.

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