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I can’t even talk to my mom.

Today we were in the car, and I was about to say somethign then My brother thought I was ttrying to start a fight which I wasn’t. And then After that happened I was trying to remmeber what I was going to tell my mom, so i said ” shoot what was i going to say” under my breath and the my brother kinda chuckled. And I said what.
He said ” You’re saying things under your breath about me.

So my mom said I didn’t, which is true, because she was right there. and my brother got all mad and was being a smart butt to my mom and didn’t care what she said.

then we got inside and the dog was in my room, and i was playing with her. Then my brother called her up. so I was like okay. And he was pretending to give her a biscuit so I was like. ” what are you doing”
him” giving bella a biscuit”
me ” why? what did she do?”
him ” becuase you told her to lay down and she did.”
Me ‘ I didn’t even tell her to lay down.
him” whatever”.

So I went and got my drink and he says ” it’s better if you don’t lie about things”
” I was like what are you talking about”
him”the thing with bella, you told her to lay down I heard you.”
Me ” Whatever.” then I was about to lie down and my brother changed his voice to act like I had been picking on him. and said right as my mom walked in the door. ” I am SOOO sick of you trying to get me in trouble”

So again, I was like ‘ whatever william.”

So I waled downstairs while my mom was talking to him, and he goes all abby on her so she came and talked to me when I was going to tell her a story that happened at lunch today and she said almost the same thing to me as she did to my brother.

So after that she asked what I was going to tell her. and I couldn’t because I was afraid that my brother will make her hate me one day cause he always gets his way..

i know it’s stupid to think that.. but I don’t know why I feel that way.

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rockonforever199 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Tell her this story or show her the article

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

you made many smart moves by ignoring his idiotic attempts at bugging you.
do you ever have any chances to talk to your mom when he is not around?
it seems his presence makes things difficult to be said by you.
you also should try to not say stuff under your breath, the little audibility can make it an easy target, although avoided this time, next time i suggest you either laugh and say something like “look what you made me do! I’ve lost my train of thought!” or stay quiet and find what you wanted to say to your mom then be all like “oh yea! (insert whatever here)!”
don’t let it be part of the antsy nature of him.
man, my dog does nothing for his treats lol XD
he just ends up getting stuff

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

FIGHT THE POWAH wrote:
you made many smart moves by ignoring his idiotic attempts at bugging you.
do you ever have any chances to talk to your mom when he is not around?
it seems his presence makes things difficult to be said by you.
you also should try to not say stuff under your breath, the little audibility can make it an easy target, although avoided this time, next time i suggest you either laugh and say something like “look what you made me do! I’ve lost my train of thought!” or stay quiet and find what you wanted to say to your mom then be all like “oh yea! (insert whatever here)!”
don’t let it be part of the antsy nature of him.
man, my dog does nothing for his treats lol XD
he just ends up getting stuff

it’s not soo much things That I ahve to be alone with, It’s just I was afraid of changing the subject. I don’t know.. because after she talked to me I felt like I wanted to cry because I didn’t do anything wrong.

What I said really wasn’t all that under my breath, it was just in my quiet “school voice” as some would call it. ( long story short, I have always always been quiet at school , and at home I am not quite the opposite but more towards that side of things)

As for our dog, She is soo spoiled. so I was just asking him what she did because he had been training her.

Sometimes my brother gets sooo defensive.

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A Hoe offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

make her read your unfortunate sentence formation

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

*!MaryChan!* wrote:

FIGHT THE POWAH wrote:
you made many smart moves by ignoring his idiotic attempts at bugging you.do you ever have any chances to talk to your mom when he is not around?it seems his presence makes things difficult to be said by you.you also should try to not say stuff under your breath, the little audibility can make it an easy target, although avoided this time, next time i suggest you either laugh and say something like “look what you made me do! I’ve lost my train of thought!” or stay quiet and find what you wanted to say to your mom then be all like “oh yea! (insert whatever here)!”don’t let it be part of the antsy nature of him.man, my dog does nothing for his treats lol XDhe just ends up getting stuff
it’s not soo much things That I ahve to be alone with, It’s just I was afraid of changing the subject. I don’t know.. because after she talked to me I felt like I wanted to cry because I didn’t do anything wrong. What I said really wasn’t all that under my breath, it was just in my quiet “school voice” as some would call it. ( long story short, I have always always been quiet at school , and at home I am not quite the opposite but more towards that side of things)As for our dog, She is soo spoiled. so I was just asking him what she did because he had been training her.Sometimes my brother gets sooo defensive.

oops forgot too finish my first paragraph thingy.
I felt like I wanted to cry because i didn’t do anything wrong. So I just told her I forgot.
Later when I feel better I end up telling her, but it would be nice to just say what I wanted to say.

CARBON TETRACHLORIDE wrote:
make her read your unfortunate sentence formation

What?

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

*!MaryChan!* wrote:

FIGHT THE POWAH wrote:
you made many smart moves by ignoring his idiotic attempts at bugging you.do you ever have any chances to talk to your mom when he is not around?it seems his presence makes things difficult to be said by you.you also should try to not say stuff under your breath, the little audibility can make it an easy target, although avoided this time, next time i suggest you either laugh and say something like “look what you made me do! I’ve lost my train of thought!” or stay quiet and find what you wanted to say to your mom then be all like “oh yea! (insert whatever here)!”don’t let it be part of the antsy nature of him.man, my dog does nothing for his treats lol XDhe just ends up getting stuff
it’s not soo much things That I ahve to be alone with, It’s just I was afraid of changing the subject. I don’t know.. because after she talked to me I felt like I wanted to cry because I didn’t do anything wrong. What I said really wasn’t all that under my breath, it was just in my quiet “school voice” as some would call it. ( long story short, I have always always been quiet at school , and at home I am not quite the opposite but more towards that side of things)As for our dog, She is soo spoiled. so I was just asking him what she did because he had been training her.Sometimes my brother gets sooo defensive.

oh, I have a “school voice” too XD i just called it my voice cause i am so freaking quiet. they all stare at me like “quiet boy! you! why are you so weird!?”
If they acctually asked me, I would have told them why, they just don’t XD
I also get what you mean with the not being able to go on with your conversation, that is a hard habit like thing to over come, the not being able to go on about what you wanted to under those circumstances.
I am not really sure, because when i say what i wanted to after things like that, it comes out all huffy and mad.
so i just wait to cool down then i talk about it

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

Yeah.

I am normally quiet ( I am always in my room, all anyone hears is maybe my music but that’s just about it.. until I am excited about something, that’s different)

But yeah, I normally do the same thing, I have to wait to calm down before I talk.

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

*!MaryChan!* wrote:
Yeah.I am normally quiet ( I am always in my room, all anyone hears is maybe my music but that’s just about it.. until I am excited about something, that’s different) But yeah, I normally do the same thing, I have to wait to calm down before I talk.

same here, i am even eating dinner in my room right now!
most families eat all together and stuff.
i am always locked up in here by my own choice

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (34 minutes after post)

FIGHT THE POWAH wrote:

*!MaryChan!* wrote:
Yeah.I am normally quiet ( I am always in my room, all anyone hears is maybe my music but that’s just about it.. until I am excited about something, that’s different) But yeah, I normally do the same thing, I have to wait to calm down before I talk.
same here, i am even eating dinner in my room right now!most families eat all together and stuff.i am always locked up in here by my own choice

I used to eat dinner in my room, until my mom thought being alone was not healthy so I have to go eat dinner outside of my room, and on very rare occasions (when my step dad is not home and my mom is busy) I am allowed to eat in my room.

I choose to be alone cause i Don’t like being around everybody

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (36 minutes after post)

*!MaryChan!* wrote:
I choose to be alone cause i Don’t like being around everybody

exactly my reason

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (39 minutes after post)

I don’t know…

Something about people.. Scares me.

It feels better talking on the internet cause people don’t actually know me.

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (42 minutes after post)

yea, i like how the internet can keep it pretty anonymous.
i don’t have to worry about seeing any of you tomorrow IRL, making crazy rumors and making me look bad.
like what would happen if i told any one IRL 99% of the stuff i say here :|

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