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My girlfriend broke up with me a week ago, when we

broke up she said that she didnt want to talk to me, but now she is calling me and, just before we broke up we were invited to a wedding, when we broke up she said that she wasnt going to go, now she called me back and told me that she would like to go with me. what the heck is going on. i dont know what to do and or think

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

What’s going on? Your girl freind can’t make up her mind, its quite common.

What should you do, depends on what you want out of the relationship.

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1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

i want us to be back together, this is the first woman in my life that i have ever felt this way before!! then she told me after we go to this wedding that we need to stop talking for a while.

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ka0tic4lif offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

I think she kind of just wants to save face for the wedding.

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 hours after post)

I would agree. And I would NOT agree to her proposal. If she wants to break up, get it over with!

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Em*[iLy] offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 16 minutes after post)

maybe she is confused on her emotions.. and maybe she regrets breaking up… or she doesnt want to lose you as a friend

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 hours, 32 minutes after post)

I deduce that she doesn’t want to be at the wedding without an important “accessory,” i.e., a boyfriend on her arm. Afterwards, she will go into “dumping mode,” and she will calculate that she can find a new boyfriend before the next major social event.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (23 hours, 15 minutes after post)

The wedding is for MY cousin

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day after post)

Perhaps, then, she is doing it to spare your feelings and to keep you from having to answer the question, “Where’s your girlfriend?”

That would be very chivalrous on her part. But if a girl wanted to break up with me, I’d tell her she didn’t have to do that, and it would be better if she didn’t.

Maybe you shouldn’t call her, and just let her call you. If she gets to the point where she asks, “Why don’t you call me?”, you can say, “I thought you wanted to break up!”

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jorbar10 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

its alwais the same history!!!!

think about yourself and dont see that girl!!

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

i just ended an 8 month relationship because i didn’t want to get married. i love her more than life. she is beautiful and clever and we get on so well most of the time. i am convinced that she is the love of my life and i don’t want to live without her. she is my best friend. but she won’t even talk to me now. she went to so much trouble arranging wedding etc. i can’t ask for anymore time. i don’t want to waste anymore of her’s. i have to let her go. something that is so hard. i’ve never felt so deeply for anyone. right now i just want to sleep. never wake up.

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4 months, 2 weeks ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

hiddenroa wrote:
i just ended an 8 month relationship because i didn’t want to get married. i love her more than life. she is beautiful and clever and we get on so well most of the time. i am convinced that she is the love of my life and i don’t want to live without her. she is my best friend. but she won’t even talk to me now. she went to so much trouble arranging wedding etc. i can’t ask for anymore time. i don’t want to waste anymore of her’s. i have to let her go. something that is so hard. i’ve never felt so deeply for anyone. right now i just want to sleep. never wake up.

i know how you feel.. its hard to deal with something like that..

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