I’m feeling a little down and confused today.
Not really confused, but I think conflicted may be a better word. After my job loss,I filed for unemployment. I have been approved, and am waiting now. Here’s the dilema. As a single mom, many of my friends are suggesting I apply for State Assistance, ie: food stamps and medical for myself and my son. I do need the help, although, this is a stage in my life that I was in during my mid to late 20’s. With hard work, dedication and determination to succeed, I pulled myself out of the assistance, and gained pride in the process. I realize that this is only temporary, yet the thought of having to go through that again is hitting me pretty hard. It’s as if, by my age, or stage in life, I shouldn’t be here.
Losing my job after so many years has been really devastating. I am an eternal optimist, but gees, this stinks..
My friends, who are all amazing individuals, have plainly stated that this is the type of situation or circumstance that deems this type of assistance necessary. I have been searching for work, but honestly, the break from an all consuming job has freed so much time with my son. He just turned 4 last week and while I’ve been doing what was necessary to provide for him, often times, I sacrificed time with him. I worked long hours, and despite my strict policy of leaving work at work, it didn’t allways work out that way.
After over 6 years with the company, I am eligible for almost a year of unemployment. It will be tough at times financialy, but well worth the time and energy for him. my question: how do I not look at recieving assistance temporarilly as a failure? Help!
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