friends help: My best friend Misty keeps on choosing her bf Chris, she acts like she doesn’t want to hang out with me any more. - Help.com

Stop hanging out with her. If/when she asks why, say, “Because you treat me like this,”. Then, do the same thing; walk away and laugh at her.

If she’s treating you like sh*t, why do you want her around you more?

But fear not. Depending on your age, it’s likely they’ll break up in a week anyway, and all you have to do is wait it out.

Do you go to JM?

Okay. Here’s what you do.

You get her alone, somewhere she can’t just run off to him.
You ask her if she really, honestly likes you as a friend; if she cares about you at all.
Chances are, she’ll look shocked and say, “Of course!”
This is when you tell her the truth, and say how her attitude towards you makes you feel and all that jazz. If she blows you off after that… then she’s not going to be able to be your friend while she’s dating this guy. Sometimes, younger girls get so caught up in their big, shiny grown-up relationship that’ll end in a few weeks, that they neglect the ones that really matter, the ones with their friends.

I would not make contact with her and have fun with people who have respect for your feelings, until she decides to come back to you. And if she doesn’t, then she wasn’t worth it.

jojolu1, you sound like you are very young, high school? If so, here is what’s happening to Misty. She’s growing up. Her hormones are changing and she’s discovered that boys are more than just cute and easy to flirt with. Give it time, and she’ll soon realize how badly she has treated you. If you truly love her as only a best friend can, tolerate it but only to a certain point. If she starts to walk away again, speak louder or follow her. She’ll get the hint after a while and so will her god-like boyfriend. In the meantime, don’t let your life pass you by just because she’s not there. Make new friends and discover new experiences. That’s what life is all about, sweetie.

Check out this post.

http://help.com/post/218704-me-and-my…

If she spends too much time with you, she’ll end up with a whiny boyfriend on her hands. If she spends too much time with him, she’ll end up with a best friend on her hands. It’s a balancing act, and maybe she’s not suceeding, so you need to tell her that you don’t like the way she’s acting. If you’ve been friends for so long, you shouldn’t just walk away from her because she’s still adjusting to new circumastances and hasn’t quite figured out how to do that yet, or you’re not a very good friend yourself.

I think that you should confront her and say something like
” You have been paying to much attention to your bf I know
You like him but I’m your friend too.” And if she walks out on
You but you still want to be her friend maybe you could
Talk to her bf about it.

That’s what I would do