Love help: what do i do when my friends dont like my bf but i love him, but he likes starting stuff, idk what to do. - Help.com

Listen to your friends.

I can’t help you but I’ll say I’m in the same situation here…
So I’m going to wait for something I’ve long-needed an answer for as well.
But for now make sure your grades don’t drop. That’s all I have been able to do. That and going running. Get some exercise because it’ll relieve your stress.
And your friends aren’t good friends if they’re jealous. Remember there’s a fine line between having good sense for you and just being resentful of you.

I’m sorry, but life has shown me differently. Friends should always come before relationships.

Of course, you can tell who your good friends are and who were just playing along with you before.
A friend I’ve had for five years had a habit of expressing jealousy of me every moment she could, and I decided not to make a fuss of it because she would always be there for me. But her jealousy, which was a red flag from the beginning, only exploded after I had my boyfriend for a while. So I realized what was a bad trait in her, which I ignored until I simply couldn’t ignore it.
I have other friends who I’ve been close to for several months, and others for a few years. They are much more supportive of me.
So there’s the line between good friends, who support a strong relationship, and bad friends, who are jealous of you and don’t really carea about your well-being.

Hm. Well, I’ve only ever had friends I could trust, so I can’t relate.

There’s an unwritten code on this, “Chicks before d*cks, Bros before hos.” In other words, if you have to choose between a love interest and your friends, you ALWAYS go with your friends, every single time.

I think the best relationships are the ones in which you can say, “chicks AND dicks” at the same time. I see them among my social circle; they are the best teen relationships I have seen.

Amethysteria wrote:
I think the best relationships are the ones in which you can say, “chicks AND dicks” at the same time.

Wow. Kinky.

;P

i have learned from personal experiance, your better off sticking with your friends because 9 times out of ten a relationship wont work out unless the friend(s) approve.. ive dealt with 3 of these situations.. and they havent worked out because.. i couldnt hang out with both of my boyfriend and my friends because it would turn into a big fight!