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I’m so arrogant

I am really full of myself. I think I am better than everyone else at everything. I am such a jerk =(

But I really feel like I am better than eveyone else…and people have said that I am so full of myself, and it makes me feel really bad…and today I realized, its true =(

How do I change?

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wil offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

Aww :).

So have you ever met or heard of anyone that you think is better than you? What about Ghandi?
Confidence is an admirable trait.

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

By realizing that.. I think you’ve already changed.
I don’t think you’d have to try so hard.
Just control yourself, when you realize that you’re starting to tell people about how good you are just stop it.

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1 year ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

don’t go trying to change yourself in any big way, just watch what you say.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 60 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

Yes, I believe someone said that to you because you hurt them with your words. Try thinking about how people feel and trying to encourage with you words instead.

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 hours, 54 minutes after post)

Are you scared you’ll be a failure in other’s eyes?
If someone has a perfect view of themselves, it’s often because they are insecure. Of course, you don’t know this because it’s often an unconscious thing.

If you see someone do something well, you may be quick to say, “Oh, I’m better than that person” only because it makes you feel better to know this even if it’s not true.

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dlewiscros offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (10 months, 1 week after post)

You cant be the best. I am the best.

But in all seriousness, there are people out there that are better than their peers. Individuals who stand out in a crowd due to the talents and gifts that they have. There is nothing wrong with knowing that you are one of them, just don’t tell anyone else. Others will see your greatness and respect you for it.

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