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The older I become, the shorter my relationships end.

im 28,female.
My first serious relationship lasted for 3 years. he cheated on me and broke my heart.
I dated with 4 guys (all officially bf and gf, different time, of course!!) in one year and half after the first relationship.
And then for 2 years with one guy. I broke up with him. Then I dated with 5 guys (3 officially bf and gf, again different time!) in one year and half. And I broke up with my ex of half year one month ago.

I am so tired of meeting new people and being a relationship in such short term and end it or being dumped.. I am friends with some exes and we get along well. when Im in a relationship, I get scared and freaked out. (fear of intimacy)

Now i am single and don’t want to date with anyone. But i know I want to meet the one.

Are you also same? when you get older, the relationship seems more difficult.
i hate it. i want to get the “I am not scared to get hurt at all” me back!!! >

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IN | 1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

its a good news,enjoy

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (17 hours, 55 minutes after post)

just stay single for a while until you feel that its really time for you to be in a relationship but don’t be jumping around like that. Enjoy being single, if you want to make out with someone just do it and have fun, go out, explore new stuff but don’t get serious with nobody until you get to know that person enough to decide if he could be a good guy for you.

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