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I’m young, 23 to be exact.

I’ve had serious relationships, engaged for awhile but I can’t find a descent girlfriend. I don’t wanna meet girls at bars, I don’t really work with any, so what do I do? I’m pretty good with relationships but meeting a girl and getting her to like me feels next to impossible. What do I do?

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

try some online dating maybe? and maybe get a membership at a local gym and try to meet some new people there. also church events and public events/social gatherings.

ask your friends if they got anyone they could introduce you to.

say hi to every pretty girl you see out and about and see where it goes..

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dvvdfr offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

have patience, enjoy your life. you are young… no worries man. odds are with you

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Mez offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

You can sometimes find some regular women at a library or as Braad said, a gym. Try these otherwise why not try speed dating… =]

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kagra1 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

Try places young available women would go. Pilates studios, even if you’re not into it it’ll be a great place to meet new people. Often times it’s a matter of opening your eyes and taking that chance to talk to the girl ahead of you at the grocery store or that girl you pass on the sidewalk walking to lunch.

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holly97_ly offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

kagra1 is right….there are a lot of times you may make eye contact with someone…but nothing goes from there. you have to take a RISK….

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software offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
IN | 1 year ago (36 minutes after post)

i am just double the age you are now,wait like i do,i have the same problem,if you find some,look for me her mom.

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

How about joining a gym? Alot of females there. Also if you have a dog, taking it for a walk, or even just yourself, is a good way as well. There are alot of female joggers out there. Grocery store even. Just strike up a conversation casually. All sorts of ways to meet them outside the bar atmosphere. Seek and you shall find hopefully. Best of luck to you :)

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