Love help: i;ve gone back and forth from thinking i like my bestfriend for a few years, i havnt said anything directly to her, but she knows how i feel. - Help.com



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i;ve gone back and forth from thinking i like my bestfriend for a few years, i havnt said anything directly to her, but she knows how i feel.

she continues to flirt with me, but other times she doesnt want anything. she gets mad sometimes when i talk about other girls, but doesnt seem to take interest in me when i drop her hints. like many, im scared to have a straight on talk with her about it, partly cuz i feel i would just freeze up but also because i wouldnt want to ruin our friendship. any advice on how i start this conversation? i feel like if i dont ill always wonder “what if”

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vladimirraki offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Don’t start the conversation at all. Flirt with her make her jealous and when she’s in that mood kiss her. it’s ure only chance man otherwise she’ll get freaked out this way u show her ure not a wussy.

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Well. If u want to talk to her then do it when it feels naturally. There ain`t nothing like what if. I had a friend for several years. (girl) I had fallen for her completely. I never talked to her directly about it and one day we just drifted apart. Talked to her about a year ago and then she looked at me with bright eyes and said ” my God why didn`t u tell me”?
It really was a sting knowing that she had felt the same way all this time.

Don`t want you to experience the same so it`s better to be safe than sorry. Ur not likely to screw up the relationship because u will know the truth and it will be a whole lot easier afterwards.

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