friends help: hey everyone me and my boyfriend recenlty broke up we had everything - Help.com

I know the feeling. You basically need to take it with a grain of salt. You cant let your emotions overwhelm you. If he cheated on you and wasnt good to you, why would you still want him? I ask myself that all the time. I cant ever answer that question either. But I always ask myself if he is going to be good for me in the long run. Thats what you need to figure out, whether or not he loves you enough to change for you and be different.

Thats how it was for me as well. He was the first man I ever really gave out my heart too. I always made excuses for him of why it didnt work for us. But I love him. I’m going to tell you to do what you think is right. I’m not going to tell you to dump him and get over it like some people would, even though thats a smart idea. The only reason why I’m not telling you that is because I’m going through it too. Like I said, just see if it will fit you in the long run. Don’t come crawling back to him though, wait and see if he calls you and wants you back. Then you’ll know.

Love trully makes u blind. Get down to the facts and see for yorself if this really is what u want.

It’s funny ..because I’m actually going through this right now.
I dated this guy since I was 14. First couple of years it wasn’t serious at all. (I’m almost 20) However, the last 2 years or so, it was extremely serious ..to the point where we were even engaged.

I heard he was cheating on me. He also admitted to lieing about past girlfriends and what he was doing. He was my first everything ..and it’s killing me to try and get past this, but our relationship wasn’t healthy and he was only hurting me. When we even got in figts about him cheating, he basically “gave up” and refused to fight to stay together. That’s how I knew he just didn’t care anymore.

So, I understand you not wanting to give up on your guy and move on .. but take it from someone who’s dealing with this — if he’s cheated on you before, what he hell is going to stop him from doing it again? If he treated you like crap before ..what he hell is going to stop him from doing it again? Etc.