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There can be multiple reasons, but I think the most important is that, some of us live in the past

Because sometimes no matter how hard you try to be happy, something always happen to bring you back down. It’s like a ticking clock… oh katie’s happy again time to send her some bullshit..

Good point…it all depends on your out look on “life” and wether your an optimist or a pessimist..some people seem to attract the negetive coz they think like that and like 2511 says some live to much in the past

Katiebug637 wrote:
It’s like a ticking clock… oh katie’s happy again time to send her some ********..

my life down to a T lol

There’s ppl that live now, but their minds are somewhere in the past, ppl who can’t be mature enough to accept their past and their current situation…

but the path isnt always clear and we have to divert

I think there’s people that dont know the reason of their suffering, but they feel the pain. If you don’t know why your life is so miserable, you should start for that. And then, try to make changes. but what if we can’t operate those changes, by ourselves?

I do not belive we make our own happyness, but we do make our own suffering. Cause if it’s not how we want it, it doesn’t have to be a reason to be down, mad, nor nasty; cause a 30% is not good, but it’s more than 10%, and when we get over 50%, it may look amazing, but for some people, it’s never enough, but 100%. So, it depends on us, how much we enjoy the little things in life, and the small wonders.

Grim_Hardcastle wrote:
Anyhow u want too see it… Our own personal health can be affected 100% by ourselves. I don`t say it`s easy. I just say it is possible. And actually there is no one else but u that can make the change. I know about many things of problems in life and have a lot of them myself. That doesn`t take my hope away. I know i can make the change but i also know that it`s really hard. I have to reach out my hand and hope someone will grab it and guide me onto the path. This is a step i have to do all by myself. And this applys for all with troubles. U have to take the first step by yourself.

Remember this.. By letting your mind float and text a little on this site u have taken the first step. I am trully proud of everyone who dare take this first step and wish u all the best of luck on the reest of the way. If i can help u in any way i would be honored to.

Very well said and I thank you very much.