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I’m burning out and I don’t know what to do.

I can’t take time off work, definitely can’t afford it for sure. What can I do to help myself?

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Bex offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Slow down (and don’t ever quit!) Are there other things in your life that you could cut back on to give you a bit more me time?

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justcallmeadmiral offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

You have a loverly avatar! I find its helpful to step back for small periods of time to refocus yourself on what you are doing and why you do so.

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Grim_Hardcastle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

Talk to someone. You need to start processing your troubles or they will take over your life. It`s better to have control of your troubles than to let the troubles get the best of you…

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 194 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

I have time at night usually. Work is busy (I have a BIG work load~ very stressful!) and my parents are keeping me busy coming over to see people and going places except all I want to do is be home. Like this weekend they want me to come to halifax with them sun and go to the south shore next weekend. I can’t do it all!!!! I just want to relax at home and see my bf every chance I get. I wish they’d leave me alone some and with that and the stress of money and xmas I feel sooo out of sorts.

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 194 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

thanks

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Have a look at some time management tips on google.

Sometimes, trimming back minutes here and there by finding alternative and more effective ways of doing things can regain you the extra time you need to recharge your batteries during the day.

Try and fit in a “rescued” half hour this way for the middle of the day when you need it most to keep going for the afternoon.

Here’s a site to start you off:

http://sbinfocanada.about.com/cs/time…

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

Be upfront with your parents.

Say… “I appreciate you wanting me to come to Halifax with you, but I really need some time and space alone to get some rest. Work is busy right now and I think coming away would be over-tiring. We’ll fix up a trip another time”

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Sometimes you just have to say the word NO! tell them as much as you’d like to, you have plans to just stay home and re-wind from the work week. They will have no choice but to accept it. You have to make YOU the priority for your own well being. Family should understand I would hope.

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 111 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

ur avatar superb. so cute! well, work to the max first. then take a vacation. moreso christmas is getting near. long vacation! :p

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Bex offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

As MTW says you need to be honest with your family and tell them that you need a break. I’m sure they only want the best for you and would be happy to give you some breathing space if they know you need it. Cancel your plans for this weekend and have some ‘you’ time. Speak to your bank about your financial situation and see if there is anything they can do to help take the pressure off a little. No one expects you to keep going like this and not burn out, so take a break before it’s too late.

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 194 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

I’ll try. My parents aren’t always understanding but i have to go next weekend even though that means no weekend with my bf who i don’t get to see much except on the weekend :( cause they are taking presents to my relatives and i didn’t go last time.

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 194 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

we only go once every approx 3 months so i haven’t been down in like 6 or 7 months.

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Bex offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (50 minutes after post)

Ok, but you still need to take a break for you. Perhaps the weekend after, make sure there are no plans and just do whatever you want, something that you find relaxing.

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Bex offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (51 minutes after post)

I expect that your cute dragon avatar fits in perfectly with how you’re feeling right now. Everyone needs a break from time to time. Get yours!

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IDon'tEverQuit offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 194 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (52 minutes after post)

OK. I love what I usually do on the weekend when everyone leaves me alone~ spend time with my bf and relax and do things I enjoy like read.

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