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There’s this boy at my youth group who is single.

I am currently single, but I just broke up with my BF. This boy thinks I should wait three weeks before I ask out a guy. I told him I like him, and he acts like he likes me… should I go for it? Do you think I have a shot with him? We were like standing around after I told him and he playfully pushed me onto the couch I stood up and laughed and said…”I don’t like being pushed.” Then he goes, “Fine, how about pulled?” and then he grabs me around the waist and pulls me down onto the couch (in a good way), and he sits down next to me. He’s really funny and I really like him. Do you think that the above story is a sign he likes me? I really wanna go out with him. He’s a freshman and I’m a sophomore, but that doesn’t matter much. lolz. Should I go for it after three weeks?

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Jessings offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

I’m sure he likes you. yay.

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gya offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Life is not complicated, we make it that way. If he knows you like him, so whatt ot wait for? If he pushes u, it’s going to pass; if he likes u; he’s not going to pay attention to the time between the ex and him.. Let it flow, hony, that’s when love comes, in the moment we aren’t waiting for it. Good luck.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

but see, that’s the problem, I don’t know. I know him, and he might say no if I ask before the three weeks is up, but everyone says that I should ask him out anyway before the three weeks is up, because if he really likes me, he’ll go out with me…but I just don’t know. I need more answers here guys.

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