school help: i don’t know what she’s thinking..

Dylanlegio

i don’t know what she’s thinking..

I’ve been really depressed about all this and am trying to get it off my chest.

At school today she pretty much just blew me right off. i mean, whenever we said goodbye she didn’t do anything, just waved and said bye. i mean there was no hug or kiss just a wave and then she walked off. i don’t get it! i mean, we’ve been together for 11 months now and all of a sudden she decides its time to play “lets see if this pisses you off” i mean, she’s been all over the guys at school and acts like a complete ***… i’m really sorry for saying that… and i never thought i’d say it, but when some guy walks up to us she completely leaves me and goes off hugging him and acting like they’re together.. and it’s really funny because i had a dream last night where she actually did cheat on me, and i just couldn’t believe it..

i don’t really know what to do.. she won’t talk alot to me, and she barely does anything with me..
i don’t want to break up with her, i just don’t know what i can do to fix what ever’s going on between us..

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Hellacious Haro 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

Have you talk to her about this?
Tell her about the stuff that’s bothering you.

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Braad 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

could fight fire with fire, go after her best friend

but seriously you need to sit her down and tell her how your feeling and see what is up

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wil 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (41 minutes after post)

Yeah, the whole thing about fighting fire with fire… You just get more fire.
But yeah, you’ve got to sit her down and talk with her, don’t let her treat you unfairly.
Even if you have done something wrong to upset her, you always retain the right to an explanation :)

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Dylanlegio 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (58 minutes after post)

i mean i’ve tried talking about it, but she just says “oh yeah we’re just friends” or “don’t worry about it” and its when she say’s that… then i get really worried.

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wil 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

‘We’re just friends’? aren’t you going out?
Say that you are worrying about it and if she respects your feelings she will say something to abolish your fears. Don’t let her tell you whether you should be worried or not, the fact is, you are, ands she needs to realize that.

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Dylanlegio 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

sorry, she says that when i ask her about the other guys n stuff. like, i’ve told her everything and i don’t know whats going on now, i guess she’s just done with me and is looking for someone better?

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Hellacious Haro 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

Well, have you try to hug her when you say goodbye?
Maybe she’s just waiting for you to do it.

Did you make it clear that this is really bothering you?

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Dylanlegio 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

yeah, i mean i tried all throughout lunch and she’d just push herself away.. i dont know if she was havinga bad day or something.. its been pretty hostile too, i mean she’s been pretty harsh throughout the week..

i don’t know if i can get much clearer than i have already. i mean i was almost close to yelling at her.. and i know thats going too far..

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Hellacious Haro 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

How long have this been happening?
Do you think maybe a taking a break from each other might be good idea?
How old are you?

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Hello users,Im Sandy 8 #
CA | 1 year ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

ok well if this is just a one time thing then i guess you can let it blow off but if she continues then you ought to do something. know your worth and never sell yourself for less. tell you can understand it not meaning anything but your still not okay wif the situation and ask her how’d she feel if you did what she did. get it off your chest and if she cant handle it then obviously shes just trying to play mind games. either she wants to see your reaction for a reason or she wants to end it. was there any other signs then this random situation that just came up?

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Dylanlegio 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

uhh it just started this week. i want to take a break but i know if we get back together it wont be the same. and we’re both 16.

i don’t think theres any other reasons why she’d do it.. i mean we’ve had some rough patches but it happens right?

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Hellacious Haro 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Hm.. so it only started this week.
Maybe she’s just having a bad week. See what happens next week.
If this is still going on, you should talk to her again.

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Dylanlegio 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

yeah… i guess it might just be a phase or something?
i hope its just been a bad week… i don’t want to go through another week like this..
thanks for the advice :)

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Hellacious Haro 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 50 minutes after post)

Yeah, it’s probably just a phase.
You’re welcome.

I’m on this website pretty much everyday so if you ever need someone to talk to just give me a shout.
:]

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Dylanlegio 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 hours, 30 minutes after post)

:] thanks so much!

i actually talked to her about it today and she said she was sorry about acting like that and she knew it was bothering me.

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Hellacious Haro 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

That’s good.
Seems like things are going to get better.

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