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Does this sound pathetic or romantic… I am in love with a girl from Spain.. We have a online relationship…And talk over the phone often.. I am planning on visiting her soon, I am from the US.. I asked her for a dinner date over the phone where we would share a little wine.. When I thought about I said oh no that sounds to strange but its too late.. What do you think

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tezz- offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

i met my ex online i say go 4 it if u dont do it ur never no good luck m8

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11 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

it sounds like its not nerdy…..

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Well… so long as you aren’t having a relationship online with someone you’ve never met!
I think it’s great!
Even if in person things don’t go the way you would like, it doesn’t matter, because a trip to Spain is a trip to Spain! :D

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Thats really sweet the only time that I think its pathetic is the ones that only talk online and wont speak over the phone where it would seem like dating a screen name over a person but what your doing is really romantic for you to set up a date like that since your so far from her.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

its not nerdy at all m8

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11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

we spent the last 2 years getting to know each other…we spoke for hours almost everyday either online or the phone…I know what she looks like and she knows what I look like….next spep is to meet her and marry her…Thank you for your cheerful responses

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

well, dinner at the phone is kinda weird…i would have never thought of it..

of you should give it a try…lol, it can only get things better

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

The only way to know someone is to spend lots of time with them… in person… seeing them when things go well and when they go badly, when they have challenges, how well you work together on things, etc.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

I also think it’s silly to ask an online community if they think doing things online is weird. If they did, they wouldn’t be online, right? Get out and meet people in person. Doing it online is way too easy. You miss so much of interaction… the sights, the scents, the touch, the proximity, the body language… real life is better.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

good point but some times its hard in person to tell them things like how u feel abuot them so doin it online is like a way out .

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I also think it’s silly to ask an online community if they think doing things online is weird. If they did, they wouldn’t be online, right? Get out and meet people in person. Doing it online is way too easy. You miss so much of interaction… the sights, the scents, the touch, the proximity, the body language… real life is better.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 56 minutes after post)

lol im in love with a girl from israel. to bad I’ll never see her again…

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Anonymous #
11 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 5 minutes after post)

real life is better but she is from Spain 9000 miles away…And the computer just introduced us….It never works for me the meeting of opposite sex…Too many chances encounters and many never compatable…. online dating is the way to go for getting to know somweone intimately and ultimately meeting them

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (8 months, 1 week after post)

Pathetic is romantic with unrequited love.

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