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Well, they say once a cheater always a cheater. I think that girl is not the one for you. Try to put it behind you?

If she is going to just throw you around, they you deserve better than her. She may seem like the one now, but i promise one day you will meet someone who will love you like you should be loved. Just let her go, you don’t deserve the pain that she will bring.

Well, they say life is hard and then you die… I don’t know what you were thinking getting involved with someone like that. Here’s a hint for the future. If she cheats with other people perhaps she’s not a nice girl (and won’t be nice to you).

‘Confused’ and totally selfish are two different things. She needs to figure out what she wants before she starts betraying and toying with people.

You need to step back a moment, take a few breaths and look at what is happening to you.

Your anger is eating you up - it’s affecting your school, your friendships, your ability to make good choices.

You have to face this anger. It’s not about the situation, nor the girl, nor school… it’s about how this particular emotion is destroying you.

Don’t let it. You sound a good guy. Yet the anger is changing you. Refuse to allow that to happen.

Talk to the counsellor again. This time, ask him or her to give you some anger management support.

I think when you get that, you will see how to deal with this situation for yourself and won’t feel that everything is caving in around you so much.

Cell is right. This lady is not meant to be your soul-mate. There will be someone even more beautiful out there for you.

I agree…I know it’s tough, I’ve been there. The only thing you can really do is spend more time with your friends, they’ll find ways to keep your mind off things.

If at all possible, avoid her, seeing only makes things worse until you face the fact that she’s not right for you.

No friends? Impossible.

Goes to another school? Easier to concentrate on other things.

Honey, there’s gonna be more girls. You can’t simply base your intire world around one.

How long have you been at this school?

everyone just wait a second here. i’d like to address this situation from the girl’s side. the whole thing sounds very similar to a situation i was in a couple years ago. I had a bf but I met this other guy that made me feel alive again. I knew I was starting to like him but thought I could just ignore it and be friends with him. One night we were talking online and he said he really needed to talk to me in person, so he came to my house and took me to a local coffee shop. There he told me that he likes me and wants to be with me. He didn’t know that I felt the same way, but I told him I did that night. When he dropped me back at home I kissed him before getting out of the car. I do consider this cheating on my bf, but I was confused. The next couple of days were rough because I knew I had to make a choice. I was not going to see the new guy again until I told my bf.
I made the wrong decision and went back to my bf, only because he was depressed and I though leaving him for someone else would push him over the edge. I told the other guy we shouldn’t be around each other so the temptation was not there.
I’m just saying, before you go calling her names and making Satan feel bad for liking this girl, find out her situation. Maybe she really wants to be with him, but for some reason she can’t.

In case you’re wondering, my relationship didn’t work out and when it was over a few months later, I called the other guy again. He had a gf this time. It went back and forth like that a couple times where timing just didn’t work out. Now, we are both in great relationships and happy for each other.

There is more to life than this one girl. You need to just remind yourself that everything happens for a reason and all you can control is you. Dont unleash your anger on some undeserving kid at school. Work through it, smash something (but don’t go crazy) and then remind yourself that you are a good person and even though things look bad right now, they will get better.