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pitseleh
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I am a hopless romantic.

And i strongly believe that there is one person for everyone, but that it takes time to wait for them. That you have to wait for them, that you have to become the person you are ment to be. That you have to suffer, and experience life before you can find them. I struggle with waiting. I have a hard life, and i want someone there to love me, and to tell me it will be okay. It is difficult for me to get through the day feeling so hopeless, i want a reason to put up with what i have to. Sometimes it is enough knowing that one day someone will care, but for now it is hard.

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kemmy offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

I believe in basically the same things as you, but I also think having relationships before your true soul mate comes along is meant to happen. You learn from those relationships and basically, it passes time.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Um, nope.

There are 6 billion people on the planet. There are plenty of good partners for anyone. I had a great partner for 17 years and she died. A few years later, I’ve found another fabulous partner.

Believing that there is one perfect person for you is silly and ridiculous. There are many people, and the best way to find them is to date lots of people and consider each time what worked and didn’t work. Hard life? Well, it’s all a matter of perspective. If you can’t find a reason inside you to push on enthusiastically towards some goals, finding some lover won’t help you any.

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Je ne sais pa offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 168 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (13 hours, 49 minutes after post)

i think linuxy is right but i myself at times think or wish that i could find mr.right. not perfect just right for no one is. but hey i know life never goes according to planned.

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Vjj offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 hours, 52 minutes after post)

I agree with linuxya too, there are so many people out there and they’re not all completely unique. To try and find one person will just get you down a lot, and won’t make you feel any better about life.

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rulle offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (19 hours, 8 minutes after post)

I don’t believe in “the one”, although I am an hopeless romantic too.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months after post)

There is ” the one ” out there .. but you just don’t have to carry a check list to find him .. its just that .. the one with whom you feel like love .. is ” the one ” .. and after that you may bring your check list too .. lol .. but i do believe in the one .. trying different people out so often .. i would’nt do that .. because that just sometimes bore you and ruin other people lives too .. it isnt a game to be played so often i guess .. but when chances come you should give it a try..

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