in order to understand a person first you must understand what it is that makes up people.
to realise what inspires action at its deepest level, what makes people do what they do, in other words. And also what is common in all people
we must recognise, firstly, that everyone is looking for something. and that is a fact.
every person on this earth is trying to find something to complete themselves. or they simply know something is missing. this manifests as the search for a soulmate, the development of a career, Art, meditation/spirituality. also as addiction, the feeling that “there is somthing i am meant to be doing” or “there is something wrong with me”
then we can see that everyone has something they are holding on to. dignity, self-respect, trust. many can not even put a finger on What it is they are scared of losing, but we all have something we need to protect.
the moment someone admits these vulnrabilities, its no longer a weakness, but rather a trait simply to be acknowledged, it becomes a strength because nothing neutralizes a lie like telling the truth. draw your own conclusions from that.
the deepest secrets to people are unlocked as you know yourself. and if your wondering, No, You dont know yourself yet. you are not your defenses and you are not your enemy. but these things are a part of you.
you should know that no matter how neatly woven together someone appears to be they always have a loose thread poking out somewhere and you should keep in mind as you prepare to pull it or point it out that You can just as easily be unraveled, and that you probably only noticed the thread because yours is a similar colour.
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to understand people you first have to understand what makes up a person.
you have to realise what inspires action at its deepest level, what makes people do what they do, in other words. And also what is common in all people
first we must recognise that everyone is looking for something. and that is a fact.
every person on this earth is trying to find something to complete themselves. or simply knows something is missing. this manifests as the search for a soulmate, the development of a career, Art, meditation/spirituality. also as addiction, the feeling that “there is somthing i am meant to be doing” or “there is something wrong with me”
second, we must see that everyone has something they do not want to lose. dignity, self-worth, trust. most cant even put their finger on What it is they are scared of losing, but we all have something we need to protect.
the deepest secrets to people are unlocked as you know yourself. and if your wondering, No, You dont know yourself yet. you are not your defenses and you are not your enemy. but these things are a part of you.
you should know that no matter how neatly woven together someone appears to be they always have a loose thread poking out somewhere and you should keep in mind as you prepare to pull it or point it out that You can just as easily be unraveled, and that you probably only noticed the thread because yours is a similar colour.
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