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who is playing second fiddle?

On one side, we have a 38 yo woman who doesn’t know that a younger lady of 31 is trying to get her 30 year old boyfriend to leave her. Like her, the other lady calls herself his girlfriend.

Difference is in the routine is due to time zone differences: Both are long distance relationships.

The younger lady wakes the guy up every morning, smiles at him, watches him prepare over the webcam and send him off his day.

The woman still snoring would get a message that her bf had left the house to go to work.

Once Mr. Cassanova gets to the office, he texts his younger lady telling her that he just got in. They exchange a few message and he sends her off to sleep.

The woman wakes up with two messages, one he had left her off to work and the other saying he’s already in.

The odd couple then exchange a few messages before the woman prepares for work.
They might exchange a few messages within the day but it doesn’t happen often.

The young lady wakes up as Mr. Cassanova lets her know that he is on his way home.
Once at home, Mr. Cassanova talks to his younger lady using the webcam. After about 30-45 minutes, the lady goes to work.

During lunch break, lady knows that the odd couple are probably talking over the webcam. She wold occasionally, send messages to distract him and might even make his phone ring. He would often times respond to her message but he doesn’t anwer the phone.

Older woman talks and tell stories of her day without even knowing what’s happeing behind her bfs mind when she’s not in front of the camera.

After the odd couple wraps their conversation, the guy would let younger lady know he’s about to go to sleep and younger lady she sends him off to bed with i love yous…

The younger lady’s smile is the first thing he see’s in the morning and though her voice is the last that he hears before sleeping, the older woman’s face is what he sees before he closes his eyes.

Who is second fiddle? Who do you think he’ll choose?

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awww offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (46 minutes after post)

ok, 1 sec… I’ll get another drink and read that…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (55 minutes after post)

Do you have any idea of how complicated that guy’s life must be? I’d say younger women is playing second fiddle simply because he obviously enjoys the company of older women (being only 30)…

But, there are no winners in this. There is a absence of any physical affection which leads me to believe that static aged man is either not human or pursues happiness elsewhere…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

hahaha

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

this is funny…
but seriously i agree with awww

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