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my boyfriend and i have bn dating 4 2 years now n i don’t feel attached any more.u no why?

??? i feel he is growing short.someone advice me

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Sounds to me like lust. The hormones of lust last up to 2 years, then they fade away into the “cuddle hormones”. It seems you do not have love for him, a strong emotional connection independant of any physical connection.

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1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

sometimes things like this happen…I would talk to him and just tell him how you feel…also just try to go on dates and make it exciting again…and if that doesnt work then maybe you need a break.

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LOGISTIC45 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

TRY ME

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elusive_creature offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

the key to a successfull relationship is falling in love over and over again with the same person.. Bogdan may be right that lust has clouded your mind or maybe the little things are just adding up to were it feels like its not the same and you need a change

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Recognise change as it occurs or else people become different overnight.

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lock90 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 hours, 48 minutes after post)

well its better to tell him how your feeling my ex fell out of love and she never told me untill she found someone new

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rubygirl9 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 2 hours after post)

there was a point when i was feelin that in my relationship. I had to actually think if it was love or if i was used to him….imagine your life with out him…if u can than u probobly don’t feel much for him. If u can’t see ur life with him than ur just in a little rut. If anything tell him u need a break and see what u feel knowing he isn’t around….Keep in mind is it love or are u just used to him? that is the question (not tryin to be funny)

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Anonymous #
12 months ago (5 days, 1 hour after post)

lock90 wrote:
well its better to tell him how your feeling my ex fell out of love and she never told me untill she found someone new

yeah let him know how you feel…because the same thing happened to me…and it really hurts…i wish my ex would have told me the truth than just leaving me for someone new :(

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