Am I Jealous?
Well, I guess I am to some extent, but too jealous?
I’m not sure. (First relation ship I’ve been in, before I say anymore.)
But, well, a while ago I had a huge problem. For a long while, my girlfriend and some other guy were flirting–well, she admitted to flirting back then, but now she won’t–but I didn’t really do anything. I felt bad that she felt bad, so I told them to stop and tried not to get too mad.
They stayed friends, and still talked for a while. Then one day, they went to the mall together. I really didn’t mind at all. The night before, the guy mentioned to me that I don’t have to worry about him, and how nothing’s going to happen.
Long story short, he tried to kiss her; he asked if she wanted anything to happen, and she said I donno, then he kissed her. After that calmed down, a while later, she asked about having an open relationship. After two or three stressful days, we resolved that she was only asking to see if I was interested in other women. But that’s beside the point, at the moment.
She’s been talking to another guy lately, and it really seems like he’s flirting with her. The other night, she mentioned how she noticed that it seemed like he was flirting. But, the thing is, it seems like she’s only flirting back. She noticed, but she doesn’t seem to stop it or anything, and it’s kinda bothering me, because last time this happened (The last time still kinda bothers me), well, you know. ^^^
There’s also some other guy who she seems to be flirting with too. (Today, she completely walked away from me while I was in mid sentence to hit him.)
Am I being overly jealous? Any advice?
There’s also something else that’s been bothering me. She doesn’t like when I so much as mention a girl, but she does it all the time talking about guys. I confronted her about it, and she said it was different.
There was another time when I was drawing on someone’s shoes, and she thought I was flirting. Then when I mentioned her doing some of the stuff she did, she said it was different because she’s always like that. =S
I donno, I’m sorry for ranting, but it’s been bothering me again. Thanks for listen’.
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