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I just need to talk to someone.

I can’t go to my mother, because I don’t want her to hold anything ver my head. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for over two years now. We’ve always been very much like a roller coaster, sometimes we’re amazing and sometimes I’m incredibly lonely. Lately, it’s always been lonely. We broke up before we started college to give each other a chance to have a fresh start, but we promised we wouldn’t hook up with anyone else until we had come to a conclusion about our future. Well, a month later I had met a boy I had started to like, and I did hook up with him. That night after I contacted my old bf and told him what happened and that I wanted to see other people. He was devastated and begged me to go back out with him. He said he didn’t care what I did and he wanted to put that behind us and get back togethor. I agreed, I had missed him alot. And things were perfect for the rest of the semester. He was incredibly lonely at his school and for once he needed me. Things were really good until he started hanging out with his high school friends again. They all like to do normal college things like party, but he doesn’t and never has. But, he likes to keep up with them and still hang out with them when they do that stuff. Sometimes he gets sick of them but mostly since he started hanging out with them again he’s adopted the phrase Im busy. When it comes to school, I understand. When it comes to family or work, i understand. But he still sees his friends regularly. He’s going to the same school as me and is living with one of those friends and has classes with them. But i get brushed off to only getting to see him maybe twice a week. I’ve been having a tough time with my own friend for a while so now that i’m lonely he’s not reciprocating the way i treated him when we first got back togethor.
I try to talk to him about how I feel, but verbally I kind of suck at getting out what I really mean or need to say. He always says I’m just being whiny too or tells me he’s busy again.
Basically nothing is getting changed or fixed and it’s wearing me out.
Now, from surfing on the internet, I’ve found out that he has a secret myspace, he’s only friends with his friends on there and it looks like he doesn’t use it much but the fact that it was a secret just really turns me off. I’m very honest, so it hurts to know and see the things that he hides from me.
I just don’t know what to do.

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