Love help: Okay, I’m a college graduate and I think I’m in love with my former prof.

This post left anonymously

Okay, I’m a college graduate and I think I’m in love with my former prof.

I had him for quite a few classes and we’ve kept in touch pretty frequently, especially last summer.

When we talk he always looks me right in the eye and sometimes blushes like he’s embarrassed. He kids around a lot with me and we make each other laugh out loud. We email frequently and have started talking on the phone. He asked me if I was coming home for thanksgiving and I said no, I’m coming home for christmas. He then said we should get together sometime for lunch. Just out of the clear blue like that, which was really odd cause he’s always been a pretty quiet, reserved person.

I’ve had a crush on him even when I was still a student, but now I just cannot stop thinking about him. I don’t have a bf and he’s not married or with someone. I’m guessing he’s twice my age. Is there anyway that he has feelings for me?

This open post was written 1 year ago | V/U/S: 114, 9, 7 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post

Reciprocity (0)

Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days.

Post Tags (10)

marriage, Eye, Christmas, college, laughter, Love, e-mail, Blue, Person, Beauty (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

Replies (9)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen

Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

nothx 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

It is possible that he does have feelings for you. I guess at this point you would be the best judge of that.
Just don’t give your hopes up and be careful, I’ve seen many gals get burned on this…

Help me with: I’m having problems with migraines.

Black_Rabbit #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

This is so sweet! My mother married her professor! They’ve been together for almost 21 years! You can find love anywhere.

This account has been deactivated.

chev.jame 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Possibly. But he also knows that universities frown on these kinds of relationships, even if you are no longer a student. Hmmmm. Twice your age? I’ve known it to work. It’s not impossible . . . just look at Black Rabbit above! ;-)

P.S. Did you write “LOVE YOU” on your eyelids like one of Dr. Indiana Jones’ female students? ;-)

¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

chev.jame wrote:
Hmmmm. Twice your age? I’ve known it to work.

I’ve known it to work as well. :) My parents are 14 years apart ..and my sister and her husband are 20+.

Help me with: This is quite ridiculous.

Anonymous #
1 year ago (44 minutes after post)

Sounds promising. Good luck!

Vjj 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 hours, 57 minutes after post)

There’s no reason he shouldn’t. Your age should be a problem as you are both adults, after all. Best of luck :)

Help me with: I need song ideas for a party.

affumdaniel2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

ok i lov u want is ur mind,u can call on this line 0243602609 or 0274224226

This account has been deactivated.

affumdaniel2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

are u there sweety

This account has been deactivated.

affumdaniel2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

hav u seen my reply

This account has been deactivated.

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.

Love help: Okay, I’m a college graduate and I think I’m in love with my former prof. - Help.com

Okay, I’m a college graduate and I think I’m in love with my former prof.

Reciprocity (0)

Post Tags (10)

Replies (9)

Invite Others to Help

Help.com Homepage