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I don’t really know what to do anymore WHY is this happening.

Im so lost and confused.
I tell myself over and over that Im strong and that things are going to look up but no.

1. My best friend who I’ve been friends with two years..Im having feelings for him EVEN THOUGH! I liked him before but I keep telling myself that one day I’ll find someone better than him and actually likes ME. not anyone else…..I don’t knowI guess I keep thinking one day he’ll realize I’m the real one for him.

2. Theres this new guy in my life we text and call each other and I did like him before.
But that was before he likes my friend..and I’m just like waaaaaattt? Is that the only reason why we talk to begin with? **BECAUSE thats how me and my best friend met..he liekd my friend and they went out but broke up blah blah blah..now were friedn**
and I feel like all I’m doing is acting desperate and just looking for excuses.
Why can’t I just calm down and just be like “Okay..It doesn’t matter move on”

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Deducing that you’re in high school. Realize that 99.9999 percent of all high school romances end within a year of graduation. You can probably imagine the reasons. So don’t take these guys or yourself too seriously . . . you’re still swimming in the little pond and after graduation you’ll be thrown into a vast ocean. So, put things in perspective and chill out.

My 18-year-old daughter has finally realized that she doesn’t have to have a boyfriend right now. She worried and fretted about them for quite a while. She has finally come to the conclusion that it will be in college where she’ll most likely meet her future husband. Now she has peace of mind, and plenty of guys who want to date her now that she acts like she doesn’t care! ;-)

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