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How do you take your hopes and dreams and turn them into reality?

What is that ‘push’ that gets you there? Especially when you know you’re living a life that you know won’t get any better, that even as it is you’re only there because you’ve become too comfortable? You make excuses you begin to name as reasons why you can’t change or you must stay… Is it something that can be defined simply as being lazy or is it some fantastically deeply penetrating psychological answer within us that can only move us. I mean we see it in the movies, the pushing points people get to where they finally realize they’re not getting anywhere fast, or their life isn’t going to change, they have to change it… How do you define that ‘ push’ and is it something we’re all capable of or only the lucky (or the strong)? (Darwinism?) Is it individualized? Or is it some obvious answer? Any input would be appreciated, and interesting.

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

If you got that inner strength inside of you then you can do anything, even escaping from an area that you feel trapped in and can’t do what you want in life. You feel as if you won’t do what you feel that you are meant to, but if you keep doing what your suppose to, just basically doing your best in what you do everyday, then eventually that one event will come and completely change your life around.

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Wolves_of_Passion offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Some people find these to help…

http://www.christinekane.com/blog/how…

I’ve made several of my own for personal inspiration. They are a constant reminder of the goals I want to achieve and things I want.

It helps to visualize the things you want from life.

and no its not only for women…when I first read over the web page it felt more lenient towards women but anyone can do this. Just saying :3

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B.Sutphin offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 hours after post)

I have the same wonders as you. I consider myself to be a hardworking, motivated person. Unfortunately, I am also practical and stupidly logical. It never made sense in my mind to work in a diner while pursuing a career as a musician. It never made sense to go back to school to follow a different career path without having the means to support such an investment. There is always a voice in my head explaining why I shouldn’t do something.

Although, it seems insanely illogical to not pursue things wholeheartedly given how short our lives really are.

I’m interested to hear what other people have to say….

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