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Devil_on_Earth
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I’ve decided…

I have decided to finally detach myself from this wonderful site. I am not going away all at once, but ever so slowly. You will see me here less and less, until you won’t hear from me again. I am not in as much need to be helped as other people at this site are. I also am not nearly as good at helping others as I used to be. I know that I have not been here very long, but I do believe that it is my time to go. This is just a way of saying an early good-bye and to let you know on what I am doing. I also wanted to say thanks to a few individuals who helped me so much and who I have become close to:

1. Chickens - I’ll miss you so much! It was so nice meeting somebody like you.
2. Shie - When I met you, I met somebody who could understand me and who could tell a great joke.
3. Malori - You are everything! I am so glad that I met you on this site.
4. Commander Ikari – It is embarrassing, but I seem to have forgotten the same that Malori and I gave you…thanks for many laughs.
5. Hell Boy – You helped me be the true devil that I am
6. Hannah – I know you go by Winter Rose right now, but I am remembering you by your first username…HannahCC. I’ll miss you so much
7. Vilen – I will miss getting your advice on my songs.
8. Thep – You are just awesome in general.
9. Siggie – I hope you feel better soon, I miss you already!

I am sorry if I did not mention you, I was just saying names that popped out at me. Most of you are people who first helped me, or made a huge impact on my life. I will never forget you all.

As I said, this is not my final good-bye, but a mere warning. I just want you all to know that even when I am off of this site, I will still remember everything that you taught me and I will cherish these online memories for forever.

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malori* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

awwwwwwww. thank you sweetie!! i will miss you so much, who ekse will dance the constipated cow with me?

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

what of the welcoming brigade?

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Vilén offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

Wow… we’re going to miss you very much. Really, we hope that this isn’t permanent. Bye, then… :(

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

:’( *Tries to speak but cant be heard through tears*

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

I know this had to be very hard to say so {{HUGZ}}.But why are you leaving us?

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (32 minutes after post)

;(

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

I’m gonna miss you
:(

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 129 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (38 minutes after post)

Smokers can use nicotine gum to ease their way of smoking, but what do helpers use to ease themselves off? If I make something that would work, I’d be a millionare…

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

The only sure fire quit method is a ban, but even then some people come back. No one leaves help, it is too good a place.

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thep offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

You wont make it all the way. I have tried myself. The only way to leave here is going cold turkey.
Your addicted, You can wean yourself off to an extent. Then it’s still cold turkey.
I have been here for two years plus all told and still cant get it out of my system.
I know people on here, that left a long time ago, or so they say. When I look at my old accounts, I see friends that I new when I first came here with new avatars and new names, some of them with new accounts.
Eh Eh, yowm hucked ah kid.
Any way, if you leave before Christmas, how can we give you all of those cyber Christmas presents?

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (56 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:
Smokers can use nicotine gum to ease their way of smoking, but what do helpers use to ease themselves off? If I make something that would work, I’d be a millionare…

I found another site that is helping me ween myself off of here. Just a thought SB

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

awwwwh im so sorry to see you go =(

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Neutra offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

Wish we got to talk more. You know, the more I read about that committe thing the more interesting it got. I guess i’ll see you later sometime then :)

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Sleeping Beauty wrote:

{Felicity} wrote:
I know this had to be very hard to say so {{HUGZ}}.But why are you leaving us?

i’m at least going to be trying to leave because i feel like i cannot help here anymore. I’ll be here a while longer, but then I’ll be gone

Theres no rule you have to help but heres some suggestions.YOu could collect quotes or jokes or prayers etc..and give them as replies, sometimes just a hug can help too .

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year ago (5 hours, 3 minutes after post)

although you dont feel that you give good advise.. just knowing that someone is there listening helps everyone…
if you feel that you need to take a break away.. then do as you need to do… but dont forget to come back and say hi once in a while.. :)

ill open my email up to ya, keep in touch..

im glad that i could help you when you needed some help and to make you smile when i could…

many hugs to you… love shie.

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Max offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 169 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Helping is just being there sometimes….you have to take care of you first:) Be happy, have fun and cya later…lol.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 hours, 43 minutes after post)

Well…

I guess this is the end :(

*joins the crying*

well, just know, that none of us will look down on you for coming back, we will still respect and like you the same, so if you change your mind, just know its okay :)

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flamedancer66 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

AWWWWWWW.DONT LEAVE!!!!

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malori* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

Ikari’s name was Gretchen!

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Vilén offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 days after post)

Sleeping Beauty wrote:

Malori In Love ♥ wrote:
Ikari’s name was Gretchen!

ooh ya.

flamedancer66 wrote:
AWWWWWWW.DONT LEAVE!!!!

I’m not needed anymore…

says who?

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malori* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 days, 17 hours after post)

not I!

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flamedancer66 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 days, 18 hours after post)

Sleeping Beauty wrote:

Malori In Love ♥ wrote:
Ikari’s name was Gretchen!

ooh ya.

flamedancer66 wrote:
AWWWWWWW.DONT LEAVE!!!!

I’m not needed anymore…

i still need you!

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Sigurrós offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 week after post)

*sobs* I do hope you’ll come visit sometimes! I’ll miss your wonderful songs allot and I won’t have the pleasure to see how things work out in your life. I wish you all of the best, that the small things bring a smile to your face & the big things stop hurting you because you’re a good person.

Take care, be well, loads of *hugs* *hugs* and *hugs*

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