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long story.
i met this guy 10 days before he left this country. he asked me to be his gf before he left. i said no at that time. after he left, we talked on a phone (north america and asia) everyday and we officially became bf and gf(even it’s a long distance relationship). it’s special. i visited him for 10 days this Feb.

Everything was perfect.
One day i was going to use comupter and his email account was open. i just saw a line something strange in his letter to someone. He was lying that he went out with his friend so he couldn’t pick up this girl’s call. But actually he was going out with me.
I got freaked out and saw who the receiver was. it’s was a girl.

I asked him what’s going on. Coz he is not a kinda person to cheat on me.
He explained to me that the girl was his ex and she was going through hell.
her parents had a company but they got huge debts. like million US$. and her father changed something’s name to her. so now she has to pay back the million $. she can’t stay in her country coz she had to go to a jail. so she is in other country.

So he couldn’t tell her that he was actually dating with me coz it would depress his ex. It’s ok for me that he doesnt tell his ex about us in that situation. BUT i wanted him to tell me first. He didn’t lie to me but I was sad.

now he and i broke up. but he asks me if we can get back together one day. But at the same time he is helping his ex to get to his country. She has to get visa to come to his country so she was going to school there and get student visa and never leave, which is illegal. And he said she would stay at his place which is no spare room. We already broke up and luckily i didnt have much feelings to him. but i was beeing annoyed by this ex all the time. but cant say anything coz her situation is indeed horrible.

i stopped talking to my ex but he still wants me to be his good friend.
but not now.

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