girl help: Well, I really want to ask out this girl that I like and I think

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Well, I really want to ask out this girl that I like and I think she likes me because we’ve been hanging out just the two of us for a few weeks.

We’ve gone hiking, biking and playing pool together, but I’m afraid to ask her out as a “boyfriend”. She’s said she wants to go see a movie with me and go snowboarding but I’m not sure if she is being nice or she means something else. Any advice that anyone has would be helpful, thank you very much.

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crackk1ll3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

Go to the movies w/ her try to hold her hang
do u 2 at least hug?/
ask her if she wants more then a friendship between u two

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Patrick27 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Time it right and try and kiss her. If she kisses you back then your golden…Make a move first b4 asking her to be your girlfriend.

shiroche 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

I’m sorry to go against someone else’s advice, but kissing someone if you’re not sure could be devastating.
Instead, ask her how she feels about you. “As a friend, or something else?”
Maybe she sees you as a possible boyfriend, but maybe she just sees you as someone she really gets along with.
Like Crackk1ll3 said before me, just ask her how she feels and what she wants.
Good luck, and whatever answer she gives you, I wish you happiness.

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Patrick27 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

I guess that i was just thinking what i would do in this situation. Im good at reading other people, so i usually am confident that any feelings i have will be reciprocated. Anyhow i only meant it as a suggestion, theres nothing wrong with just going for it, but if your not sure then go with take the other posters advice.

timmy_38 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

Thank you all very much for the good advice. I think I know how I’m going to ask her about our relationship. We’re going biking in a few days, so I’ll ask her then. Thanks again!

apollo 1 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 1 year ago (13 hours, 57 minutes after post)

NEVER ever assume that a girl is showing interest in your because she’s “being nice.”

She wants you. Don’t ask her to verbally confirm it. Operate as if it’s true until such a time that she comes out of the blue and says she’s not into you.

Bold, decisive action wins the day. She doesn’t dream about a shy guy who trips on his feet. If you’re a nerd, you already know about a swashbuckler who knows he’s the man, always gets the girl, and always takes action in the direction of what he wants.

Captain Kirk. Seriously. Don’t try to talk like him, but ask yourself “What would Captain Kirk do?” He wouldn’t asked the alien girl in the funky costume whether she “liked him, liked him.” Of course, she likes him. He’s Captain Kirk.

Make the question that silly. Of course she likes you. You’re timmy_38. THE timmy_38. The swashbuckler.

Enough talk. Move out, soldier. Go.

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Patrick27 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (22 hours, 25 minutes after post)

I knew i was right!!Lawl…

shiroche 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

And if she’s not interested in him, the kiss could turn into a slap in the face.
but with words, a simple question fit into a discussion can easily give the yes or no answer being searched for.

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timmy_38 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

Haha, thank you Apollo. :) Thank you all for more good advice. I’m going to hang out with her Tuesday hopefully and I’ll ask then.

soccerk2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

dude she likes you!!!!!!!!!!!! just kiss the girl !!!!!!!! come on man be smart!!!

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timmy_38 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

Thank you, I’m still not sure if she likes me, but I’m going to try to get together with her more often. Thanks for the advice.

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