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So..

I really like this girl from my english class. I mean really like. She is so smart, has a beautiful character…There’s only one problem.. I’m a girl.. And i thought i was straight and i’m attracted to a girl! But as far as i know she is straight so there’s no way that she feels the same way. What should i do?

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Trash offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

Tell her how you feel.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Like you just explained here, write her a note, tell her what you think of her, and your feelings.

I think she’ll understand if she’s the girl you believe her to be.

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1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

I’m scared that if i do that she will back away from me. I really love our conversations so if she stops them because of this I’ll be a bit hurt. Also, i’m a bit confused about myself at the moment. I mean, i always liked guys.. i don’t know why now..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Well
Let her know.
But tell her if she doesnt feel the same, youd like to keep things how theve been.
And thats pretty amazing, how long have you known her?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

I certainly wouldn’t come right out and tell her how you feel, since she doesn’t really know you. First establish a friendship. Only then will you get a feel as to where to go from there. Good luck :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Well, thats why I was asking how long shes known her.
I figured she already established something.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

She’s a new friend.. I’ve known her since october..

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

beginning of october, so not so long

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

Right. Too soon to let your feelings known I think. Play it by ear. Get to know her better. The tighter your friendship becomes, the more she will express in more detail her feelings on all relationships. Just my opinion :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

I agree with Seas light.

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Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (52 minutes after post)

I would just leave it as a friendship. If you’re sensing she doesn’t feel the same, you’re probably right. It could make problems for yourself where right now there is a beautiful friendship.

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