life help: ~Karma VS Ex-Husband~ - Help.com

Richard cor de lyon wrote:
A sense of vindication is always very sweet. I don’t really think it’s evil of you. I think it’s normal of you. $100 bucks is enough to hurt, but it’s not end of the world sorta stuff. And I know I don’t have to tell you to be wary of the amount of satisfaction you get from this. I just don’t want you having to revisit painful times unnecessarily.
Bright blessings ~ Richard

good, that makes me feel better.. :)
yeah… its all in the courts hands now… receiving the checks and everything.. that way.. i have nothing to do with him except for taking his money… lol..
although $100.00 a week is not much… it will get me off from social services.. which is great.. and once my disability starts up.. it wont affect it because its under the amount that you can actually make before it does.. which is really cool..

☼₦ḭṤă☼ wrote:
Haha glad things worked out in your favor today Shie =). It’s not bad of you to enjoy it…

ty…. i came home, looked at roger with this HUGE grin and yelled.. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!! and started laughing…. havent been able to remove this grin for a while now… it actually feels like a weight has been lifted… a small one but still.. i feel so light… i can get off from the help through the state and can actually stop going to their required ‘retard’ classes…

oh.. im so very excited!!!!

exactly….
and yes, its nice to have them garnish his wages because i know he wouldnt be paying me a dime… he would rather be violated for it… so im glad that they are just taking it as well…

god i wish i was a fly on the wall when he opens his paycheck next week.. hehehehehehe

ɐʇɐɯɹǝɟ.Suc wrote:
OMG HOORAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY*hug hug hug hug hug*

hehehehehehehehehehe…

ɐʇɐɯɹǝɟ.Suc wrote:
*hug hug hug hug hug*(help ate my reply)

hahahaha.. i hate when that happens… it does it to me sometimes too… lmfao.. hugs back to ya.. :)

AKITHMA wrote:
justice prevails,i can see that grin now haha,word !dont mess with the shie,nicely done

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah….. justice!! just a small amount of justice but very worth it to me.. just to know that he is going to be sh!t!ng his pants out of anger will make me have a wonderful night sleep tonight… and i know it sounds horrible of me.. but for all the suffering that i have gone through with him and all the suffering i still have to look forward too… he sooooo deserves to suffer just a little bit… he is my b!tch now.. and he works for me!!

muuuahahahahahahahahahahahah

AKITHMA wrote:
happy shouts for yesterday too sweetheart,big hugzzz

thankyou!! it was an amazing day…

Bogdan wrote:
Yay! That’s what he gets.
I don’t normally take joy from others misery, but he sounds like a real ‘uck wit who really deserves it. Go Karma!

hahahahahahahaha….. well, 10 years of abuse, this is the least i could do for him…. hehehehhehe..

Island wrote:
Oh Shie, well done ! And what a post birthday present too.

No,no, no, Not evil at all, you have gone through a lot of things and he’s now having to pay back, at the very least! I know it’s not about money, it’s about recognition; you did not deserve to be on the receiving end of his treatment of you, he treated you badly, he has to be accountable for his actions because you cannot treat someone like that, period.

Big hug to you:)x

oh i know.. i walked into the house with my huge smile and yelled happy birthday to meeeeeee… lmfao… roger was like.. what happened.. hahahahaha..

exactly!! hopefully this will make him wake up and stop abusing his current girlfriend.

YES.. i tried to warn her.. but she wouldnt listen to me.. she has had one child with him and is pregnant for another… i know that her family doesnt like him because he is very controlling and she never gets to see him.. as for the hitting, i dont know about that.. but i wouldnt put it past him because once an abuser.. its about control and they dont change.

libragirl12 wrote:
Ohhhhhhhh sweet Karma, I so do beleive in it. Good for you, he needs to pay 100 times more. I think you deserve much more, good things are bound to come your way with time.

yes.. actually… there is a domestic violence law here… if you have long term medical issues from abuse, you can sue the crap out of the abuser… im just abiding my time… hehehehehehe.. he will get his…

Joy. wrote:
Thats AWESOME!! I’m so happy for you!!! :> I think he owes you way more then just $100 a week but atleast you own :) Good over evil!! WOOO!

woot woot… i know… but, this is going to really really really tick him off.. and im loving it!!! ~evil little grin~

Island wrote:
Aaggh, dear me, and so it goes on…. why don’t some people listen to the best advice they’ll get?! Particularly from someone who knows first hand. Well, you did warn her, the rest is up to her. Just glad you aren’t having to deal with that now. Making headway now honey, fingers crossed for you all the way. x

~Shie~ wrote:
YES.. i tried to warn her.. but she wouldnt listen to me.. she has had one child with him and is pregnant for another… i know that her family doesnt like him because he is very controlling and she never gets to see him.. as for the hitting, i dont know about that.. but i wouldnt put it past him because once an abuser.. its about control and they dont change.

you are right.. she thought that she knew everything… and didnt want to listen… now i bet you anything that she is wishing that she took my advise… but its all up to her to get out.. i tried to help..

Neutra wrote:
Glad to see things are justified, looks like things are looking up

me too… it gives me a small amount of satisfaction to know that he is going to be one ticked off person…

αиgєl♥ wrote:
WOOOOOO! im so happy for you shie! hahahhaa thats great! :D

αиgєl♥ wrote:
WOOOOOO! im so happy for you shie! hahahhaa thats great! :D

thank you….. im happy too… heheheheh..

yodaluv12 wrote:
yessssss! i’m so happy for you!! i think $100/week is a victory, but you deserve way more for all you’ve been through and are still going through (even though money can’t fix everything).

and youre right.. money cant fix my issues.. but it can make him a miserable (email removed) lmfao.. which makes me happy… :) lmfao.

ahh crap.. they deleted my word… lol.. a miserable B @ S T @ R D….

Sasha101 wrote:
Personally I don’t think $100 covers the pain you’ve had hon, but hey girl If your happy I’m happy for you ! :P ))))))))))))))Big hugs xx

yeah, for all that i have to deal with… surgeries, the pain, etc… $100.00 is very cheap for him to get away with..

i have actually found out that due to how i walk due to my pain issues, it puts a lot of pressure on wrong parts of my feet… and now acutally have to have bones removed from my feet soon.. ugh.. yet another surgery…

but i am happy because i know for a fact that he is going to be flipping out, banging his head against the wall, griping and moaning to everyone about how much of a b!tch i am and this and that… and to know that he is going to go through a bit of anger for having to ‘work’ for me… makes me smile…

bluflames83 wrote:
glad you’re happy, although i hate being pissed off and not being able to do anything about it. its a very helpless feeling but he deserves it obviously..

AND YOU ARE RIGHT!!
i am a person that hates to see anyone suffer.. always lending my help whether it be physically, emotionally or monetarily when i can… but he beat me for ten years, is the cause of my tumor and the reason i had to have screws and plates in my neck… so a bit of feeling out of control and having to work for me… its just a small price to pay for all the torture that i went through and what i have to look forward to in the future with this dang tumor…

Hybrid Theory wrote:
I think $100 a week is him getting off easy for what he did to you. But its better than nothing, and at least thats over for you. Congrats Shie, lets hope Karma keeps working her magic on the bastard.

hahahahahahahaahah…

you are right… $100.00 is not much when you think about what i have to live with for the rest of my life… but it will do… hehehehehehe..

as for karma.. yeah, karma has been on my side for the last 5 years.. hehehehe.. so many stories that i could tell ya… lol. would have you rolling..

Cotton2226 wrote:
Great news for you and your children ! Wonderful….justice does prevail sometimes!

yeah, except i dont have my kids back yet… i wish… but not yet… and yes, the justice system where i live now doesnt play games… they dont allow scum bags such as my ex husband to live a happy life… they have to pay!!

c-eek wrote:
Well I must say, your post made my day!

As a side note: A smart woman interviews the ex-wife or a member of the ex’s family before she gets too involved with a guy has been married before. I know it sounds like a drastic move, and you have to weigh all the evidence before giving a thumbs down to a guy. However, think of the pain we might avoid by taking what the ex has to say into consideration.

hehehehe, glad to have made your day.. :) i actually had a hard time sleeping last night because i just keep trying to imagine his face… lmfao… when he goes to open his paycheck… lol..
and you are right!! i tried very hard to let this girl know what he was like.. and yes, some women can be very hurt and just want to cause problems.. but i was done with him.. thanked her for taking out my trash…. but i did try to let her know how he was and she didnt believe me… until now… so all i can do is say, goodluck to her..

bluflames83 wrote:
yeah, when you say it he deserves so much more.. he should be giving you much more than $100 just for the tumor, let alone everything else…

he deserves to go through something painful like i have too.. he deserves to be put in a bull pen naked and rub peanut butter all over his privates and let the bulls go to town!!! ~crunch~ right off with the bad boy…. and allow no pain killers to be available for him… ~evil grin~

bluflames83 wrote:
lq2m…do bulls like peanut butter?? i think peanut butter is too good to use, what else could we use instead?? if its bulls couldnt we just paint him red??

hahahahaha…. you are right… peanut butter is just too good for him… red paint would work…

*lilies wrote:
Hello there Shie! so i am late to this post but this realllyy made me smile. Today i went to school and talked on the process of doing a research on poetry and short stories written for and/or by women…their rights and liberties….how women suffer from miseries in their own homes. I felt sad reading some of the works i am referring to but now i just arrived home and saw this post. This makes me feel better. :)

No, i don’t think you are evil. Never. :)

glad i could help bring a little smile to your face… it is tough when a woman or a man goes through torture in a relationship… and you have to remember, there are men out there that get abused as well.. but because they are suppose to be all macho… we hardly ever hear of it happening..

elysium wrote:
I’m so happy for you Shie! It’s always nice to hear when such an evil person, gets what he deserves. He has put you through a lot of stress and is now being punished for it.

You’re not evil Shie and don’t let anyone make you think that you are. :)

thank you elysium… hehehehhe.. i do have a bit of an evil grin on my face though… and im sure it will get a little more evil looking when i receive that first check… lmfao…

miss_enigma wrote:
Hey Shie! Sorry I’m late but woooo hooo! Whatcha gonna do with the first 100 bucks?! Do something nice for yourself, you deserve it. :)

hehehe.. not sure.. but im thinking about going in for matenience fees as well.. that means.. he has to pay for me to get my hair cut, get my nails done etc… shoot, he made me lose my job… i deserve all i can get…

spiratec9 wrote:
please try an experiment.
Take the hundred dollars per week for two months.
Then send him check for $400 in the third month.
Say nothing and wait for him to reply.

why would i do that?

Cotton2226 wrote:
Sweetie, you WILL get those kids back. It will happen….love ya!

you know… it has been a long time… and although things are coming to me in a very very very slow process… i know they will be home soon… and i cant wait..

TheJDevil wrote:
hahahha good for you!

thank you devil…. hehehehehehhe

knocking on some very hard wood… so far… things seem to be a bit of a delight… thank you snar..

Snar wrote:

~Shie~ wrote:
knocking on some very hard wood… so far… things seem to be a bit of a delight… thank you snar..

Your welcome, i got a fuzzy memory but i remmeber not too long ago u having some problems and not feelin the best, now u had that charity thing (or whateve rit was for abuse victims? Im sorry that i forget, i jsut have an awful memory… i know you got honoured or something and it was a great moment) and now this. So I really am glad for you :), justice does come!

yes… see, your memory isnt all that bad… lol… hehehehehehe…

TheJDevil wrote:

~Shie~ wrote:
knocking on some very hard wood… so far… things seem to be a bit of a delight… thank you snar..

i gotta get myself some hard wood to kick on. that would be a bit of a delight.

let me know if you find some…. lol..

spiratec9 wrote:
spiratec9 wrote:
please try an experiment.
Take the hundred dollars per week for two months.
Then send him check for $400 in the third month.
Say nothing and wait for him to reply.

why would i do that?

Can you guess why?

no… i cant guess why… to me, that sounds a bit foolish doesnt it? can you explain to me why?

TheJDevil wrote:
woahh. i said kick on. i meant hard wood to KNOCK on
haha.

lol

well, my friends sister works with my ex husband… although i can not see his face physically, im waiting for a really good response to his facial expression… and when i get it, i will surely pass it on… hehehehe… should be happening thursday of next week i believe… or sometime in that frame..

amy wrote:
Yay!!!

i know… hehehehehehhe

cutepixy wrote:
your not evil and i am sooo happy that you got out of that hell, you seem like a beautiful person inside and out. and treat yourself to a spa with the money that bastard if giving you if i could get to him i’d acquient him with my brass knuckles for ever hitting a woman in his entire life and make sure he has some damage done to his skull and genital organs :)

oh.. the very day i left he decided to stand in front of my car refusing to let me go.. i knew if i walked in that house, i was in trouble.. i gave him several chances to move, he refuses.. so i hit the gas…
as for the genital organs… about 5 months after i left his @ss, he contracted herpies… so he is dealing with that for the rest of his life… karma… got to love it… lmfao…

AS FOR THE MONEY, i have not received a check yet, however i have told my friend whos sister works with the @ss.. her sister went and told him to be expecting a bit less in his paycheck.. “he laughed and said, yeah right… i can hold my hand on my *** for his money..” i cant wait to hear his reactions and who will be holding who’s @ss when he is missing 100 bucks from his pay… lol.. he thinks this is a joke and that its not going to happen… ~evil grin~ lol..

hahahahaha… soooooooooooooooo true…

cutepixy wrote:
well if your in need of a chick with a hammer or well baseball or even brass knuckles you can give me a shout i’ll knock some sense into those in need of it

hahahahahahahaha… ill keep that in mind… lol..

my ex husband is scared to death of me now…. all it took was me running his @ss over with my car… lol…