life help: life is hard,but i guess we have to live it.some stuff hurts - Help.com

yeah its true, but tell me will you know what happiness means widout you being sad…
take it as a part of life

Care to explain why your son and husband don’t get along?

That’s awful. Even if he is mad or doesn’t want to talk to his dad, he should still let you see his grandson.

You were on here before weren’t you? If I remember correctly your husband behaved poorly to your son. He threw a crib out the door. Then tried to control you too. Your pain must be very deep. But All I can say is you have to stop mourning for something that will not happen. A normal family is not in the cards as long as he behaves this way.

I hope you are able to see your son and grandchild. You have to find other ways to find peace.

You are in a difficult spot. You need to find help. Your husband is not okay. You need to find a way to help yourself. Talking to him will not help at this point. Seek help through counseling or a woman’s advocacy group.

You need to love him… But you need to love yourself too. Your son is your grandson’s father. He feels a need to protect him. Who is protecting you? Can you protect you? If you can’t protect yourself, how could you protect your grandson from your husband? Find that inner strength, step up… find a way to increase your self esteem.