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I’m not sure :S

I’ve liked this guy for about a year now… and he knows it but he said to my mate we are just “really really really good mates”. However, last night at a gig, and he had no alcohol, he asked what my fav song was to which he stared whispering the lyrics into my ear when it was quiet and like tapping my nose and giving me a huge grin. His mates joke on saying he is in love with me… but he has even said himself we are just really really really good mates.

I don’t know what this means… at all.
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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Maybe he just says you are really really really good mates because he thinks that’s how YOU feel so he just says it.

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

Ask yourself this - are you prepared to settle for having a good friend but always being unhappy things never went further? Or are you prepared to take a risk and see what happens?

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Dr. Pepper offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

he probably doesnt know exatctly what he feels about you. He may be confused jus as much as you are now. talk to him - but carefully…. ask him how far would he go with his really good mate?

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Step666 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (41 minutes after post)

Careful is good but hypotheticals can be annoying.
If you are going to address the matter with him, being honest might be better than talking about a fictional ‘really good mate’.

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