friends help: is my relationship with him in turmoil ? - Help.com

Are you dating? Boyfriend/girlfriend? How long? Did you cry or almost cry in front of him and his friends?

If he cares about you and he doesn’t understand what’s going on, why you’re crying etc then he’s bound to be confused and worried.
The reason you’re getting mixed signals may well be that he doesn’t know what to do and is worried he might make things worse.

Your best bet is to speak to him, tell him what’s going on.

Any crying in front of potential bf will unfortunately scare him right off. Might have to shuck this off as ‘experience’. Not getting what we want=Experience.

Mother of Peace wrote:
How do I know if he does care about me judging by the body languages I posted .

I’m afraid only you can tell if he cares about you but if you’re friends, I don’t imagine there’s any way he wouldn’t care.

No, don’t think that.

If you want this to happen, make it happen.
Giving up at the first little set-back is not the answer.

Please stop thanking me, I haven’t done anything to deserve it.

I’ve been on this site for all of 6 hours, at most, and it’s already clear you’re one of the most helpful people here - if this wasn’t happening to you, I’m sure you’d be giving out better advice than I ever could.
I’m just telling you what you already know, just have confidence in yourself and it’ll all be ok.

Hes trying to understand.Try to talk to him about how you feel.Its hard to understand anothers pain.