life help: what do you do if the guy you like is8,ooo miles away and you think you want to spend the rest of youre life with him? - Help.com

If he’s 8000 miles away, you’d better be sure you want to spend the rest of your life with him before you make a decision.

Chase your dreams but be prepared for alternative paths. You won’t always get what you want. You will need to get money and say goodbye to friends…It may last a day or a lifetime. That is up to you and your Lives tests…Be honest with him but not always. Test his love for you…You then choose your path…Holidays to see foreign lovers is always an option…I have lots of girls who still think of me fondly and vica verca that I no longer long to be with but can consider the possibility…What if?

Good luck finding your happiness.

Your expectations may be too high…learn to comprimise and negotiate…

No worries.

how long have you been with or known the guy?

and why would your parents pick you apart if they knew about him?

Does he want the same thing?

i think you need to talk to him first before making any sort of decision.

Then try talking to him about it.

Would you move there or would you want him to move to be with you?

I’m afraid only you can answer that question.

i’m a little confused. if you knew him for 5 years and said that you loved eachother, how do you have no communication whatsoever?

you guys didn’t exchange emails or something though?
that’s where i don’t get it, if you loved one another, why didn’t you make sure there was going to be some way to talk once he moved?

Yes, that does seem weird to be honest.

would you mind me asking your age?

you don’t seem like you really even know what’s going on in your own life,
let alone trying to factor another person into the equation,
figure out your own personal situations and then maybe you can look for your special someone.

That sounds like very sound advice.

Sort yourself out, then speak to him then see what you want.

Sorry but that’s all we have.

Even if you were old enough to be making these sorts of decisions which, frankly, it doesn’t sound like you are, doing anything without speaking to him first would be a really pretty stupid move.

i have to agree with step

No, you just need to help yourself.
We can’t magically make things better, it’s your life, you need to put the effort in.