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Please can somebody answer my posts, no one does…

I leave loads of people replies and comments and i seem to help them from the feedback i get, and don’t get me wrong i love to help people but nobody answers my worries or problems.
Out of my whole help.com career only 2 people have ever left me a comment.
Its like that in my life, i do everything i can to help people but they never do anything in return, ever.
I don’t expect anthing, but a little gratiude would be nice.
Am i crazy to expect anthing back?
Am i being selfish?
everyone seems to walk all over me now cause they know i’ll always be there
its actually gettin to the point that there bein kinda mean to me as they know i won’t walk away.
I would really apprciate it if somebody, anybody left me a comment.
thank you if u do. really it means a lot.
xxxxxx

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Lizzy08 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

Well Ive just joined…so I’ll try and help. But whats up?

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veg_head offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

I’m sorry that your pasts have gone unanswered! How can I help?

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

hey from all the ppl you helped in this world , i would really like to say thank you for all the time and thought you have put in helping ppl ^_^…

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mrs c offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 420 #
GB | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

hey honey,im here x

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veg_head offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

I know how you feel about the way people treat you; I feel invisible sometimes too. The other day I was shopping in a really busy, cart-to-cart combat supermarket and counted over a dozen times I said “excuse me” when bumping people (or being bumped) and not one person said anything back. Jerks.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

I know exactly what you mean. I am the same way. I give so much of myself and hardly get anything back in return. When I need help there is no one to call on. I try to stay positive and believe that the people I’ve dealt with are just self absorbed and the rest of the world isn’t really like that. But we are all here to help. It does seem like good people gather here on help.com. :)

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____________________ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

I answered you before. I helped you with posting the video on your post. Add me as a friend and invite me when you make a new post. I’ll show up.

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miss sunshine offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

thanks so much guys, it means alot that u have taken the time u answer my post. All the people that have said about there problems i really hpe u sort them out,
Its just that my best friend is treating me like dirt because she knows i won’t walk anyway because she’ll get all my other friends againist me and plus she knows i’m too soft, but i’m tired of it!This sounds so childish i know, but its true
wat shood i do?
(jst a special thanks to Dr.Cuddy that hepled with that video, but u guys are all great aswell!!)
xxxxxx

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

miss sunshine wrote:
thanks so much guys, it means alot that u have taken the time u answer my post. All the people that have said about there problems i really hpe u sort them out,Its just that my best friend is treating me like dirt because she knows i won’t walk anyway because she’ll get all my other friends againist me and plus she knows i’m too soft, but i’m tired of it!This sounds so childish i know, but its truewat shood i do?(jst a special thanks to Dr.Cuddy that hepled with that video, but u guys are all great aswell!!)xxxxxx

i do believe some ppl are not worth being good to them, like why should you care about them if they dont care about themselves, if they hurt you , screw them ^_^, dont let anybody walk on you…

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mrs c offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 420 #
GB | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

are you the one whos going to get bashed lv???

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InsertFishHere offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

i get this problem, its so frustrating when you see people asking about stupid things and getting 300 replys and you make a post whe you need serious help and nobody is there to reply…

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Lizzy08 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

Miss Sunshine! - Sometimes people threaten you like that, but forget the people there using to threaten you actually like you more. If someones is that nasty im sure your other friends would prefer to be friendly with you thank the horrible person! This sounds confusing!

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____________________ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

That’s messed up! What brought that on??? Has she always been like that to you? Doesn’t sound like much of a friend…

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

If she treats you bad like that she isn’t really your friend. You don’t have to tell her you’re going to stop being her friend, just stop being her friend. Don’t call her or come by. Be busy when she calls and go out with your other friends more. If you don’t have other friends that don’t hang with her, go make some.

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miss sunshine offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

I duno my friend jst started taking advantage of me and being horrible, and its gettin worse..
so basically u guys are sayin i should jst walk away and hpe that my other friends will be on my side instead of hers? and jst stop bein her friend?
that is a good plan, but if it backfires then i’m on my own, and that scares me.
shood i mabye make new friends or shood i stand up for myself and stay in my group but not let her push me around?
I have been bullied before so this brings back alot of bad memories, but i’m goin be strong and not let it affect me!
OMG u guys are wonderful!! thank u soo much1
xxxx

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Vyki offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

If it makes you feel any better I have read your posts, i just have not felt able to help. Sorry miss sunshine

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Help me with: B-O-R-E-D.
tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 105 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

dont let anybody walk on you , i rather live alone than to be walked apone… plus you can always make new friends ^_^

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

In the animal world, body language is much stronger than speaking. If you don’t give her the attention then she will eventually stop the behavior. Like when a dog barks really loud, you don’t want to give him attention because you’re just giving in to it’s behavior. So just be too busy whenever she comes looking for you. Eventually she’ll realize she’s been an a-hole.

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____________________ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (34 minutes after post)

If the rest of your friends are cool, I say stay in the group but stand up for yourself.

If they tend to follow whatever she does, I’d say screw them and make some real friends.

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miss sunshine offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (36 minutes after post)

U guys have no idea how much this has helped.
If there is ever anything i can help u with i will defo leave u a comment.
Its nice to know theres such a nice bunch of people out there.
I will try all of ur suggestions and hpe it works.
If anyone has anymore please tell me, i need all the options i can get!!
i’ll mabye leave another post in a while to say how its gettin on!
I love u guys!!! and thanks again!
Miss Sunshine xxxxxxx

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____________________ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (39 minutes after post)

Aw no problem =). I wish you the best with everything ^^!

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jonathanpce0 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 18 minutes after post)

BLESS WHATS UP?

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 1 year ago (7 hours, 25 minutes after post)

HI, i feel like that always happens, you just need a good catch phrase.

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

expect nothing than you shall never be dissapointed

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

*disappointed

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annamariabergin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

awww… maybe read the book, ‘The Secret’. Sometimes i think the same thing… but if somethings wrong with yu… the answers always in you…not to change other people or what they do (because we cant) …but to change something in you, for yu!
xxxx
annmarie

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