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help im 17 i aint had a girl friend, and every girl

i meet seems to just have me and call me a looser which really sucks and makes matters worse cause im really shy to say the least… what can i do to at make friends with some girls and be more outgoing and fun…

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downman1 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

Confidence is the most important thing that you can have.
Confidence makes you sexy no matter what you look like.
http://help.com/post/204454-10-ways-t…
If your worried about talking to her wright out your fears and all the excuses. After that Write why all of these things ore wrong.(make it really extensive 3-4pgs if you can). This helped me alot.
Good luck man.
I would work on confidence first before you try anything else. Thats just me.

Get Outside too. Go get coffee, go to the bank, the mall. Go out and talk to strangers. Join a club at school. YOU CAN’t expect a woman to fall in to you lap if youre spending hours on your computer.

Find some new friends, I know high school was tough for me too…., I think the reason why i didn’t have a great group of friends is because i didn’t have any confidence. i was Shy up until sophomore year. and then i had low self-esteem up until this summer. The best thing that you have to tell your self is that people who are mean to you are tools because they will only be popular in high school and will never have that again. College is SOOOOO different.

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xxmarylouxx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 hours, 54 minutes after post)

Confidence hun.
Confidence is very sexy. Just as downman1 said.
Every time I see a guy that is confident, it makes me want to go and say hello to them.
Shyness can sometimes be cute, shows there is something about you that not everyone knows.
But just trying talking to a pretty girl as a friend.
just try to show some confidence, but don’t get it confused with cocky-ness.

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mattpu offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

hey i have the exact same problem but i find it impossible to talk to them :/

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xxmarylouxx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

I’m telling ya, confidence. =D

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