work help: Why is everyone looking at me when I wore a sleeveless top to work? - Help.com

Maybe your hot.

;)

it’s weird……. like they keep staring at me! like wtf? im not hot…

Anonymous wrote:
it’s weird……. like they keep staring at me! like wtf? im not hot…

Well if they’re staring they must like it, maybe you just have low self esteem, or maybe you had something in your teeth, but I bet it was the hot thing…

whats your job? and what do you mean by ’sleevless shirt’? can you be mroe specific?
i’m an image consulatant, i’d love to help.

Any chance of getting our opinion on that?

well it’s like those sleeveless tops you wear to gym or for doing sports.. and it;s not fit, it’s just alright and no i dont think there’s something in my teeth. I work in the finance department

It could simply be inappropriate dress to have no sleeves, even on casual friday.

is it really inappropriate?? i didnt reveal any boobs out or sth…?? it’s just a sleeveless shirt!!!!!

hmm, that may have been a little too casual even for ‘casual day’ the fact that the top was sleevless way not have been the probelm, but the material and style may have been what look out of place at an office envoirment. exciercise clothing isnt profesional enough for work.

maybe there was a stain?

or they thought it wasn’t very tasteful.

Anonymous wrote:
is it really inappropriate?? i didnt reveal any boobs out or sth…?? it’s just a sleeveless shirt!!!!!

I think sleeveless shirts are fine…

I mean, girls at my school get to wear them, I dont se how showing your arms is inappropriate.

I dont have a problem with it, but certain places maintain dress codes like this.

oh no there’s no stain. it’s all black. yea, i agree with Nante, showing arms is not inappropriate. well maybe it’s an office..so that’s a little different….

feels like im in a wardrobe malfunction. :(

Anonymous wrote:
oh no there’s no stain. it’s all black. yea, i agree with Nante, showing arms is not inappropriate. well maybe it’s an office..so that’s a little different….

I doubt it, it sounds to me like they just thought you lookjed nice/diffrent/interesting

are you social with your co workers?

http://lh6.ggpht.com/_6fxDD6E2i5k/SGi…(+CHLOE)+cotton+nails+flower+sleeveless+blouse(+black)+S+M+L($37).jpg

this is am example of a sleevless top that would be appropriate for a office envoirnment. its not the showing arms that is the problem, its the fact that what you wore as you described it; a sleeveless tops you wear to gym or for doing sports.. this is not somthing you should be wearing to work! in the furute choose clothing that is more profesional! =)

um, well so so. I don’t really get close to the guys..

trust me, they wernt looking at you because you looked good, well at least for work im not saying you didnt look okay for another setting but i think they probably thought that your wernt dressing in a way that is office-like.

:) thanks for saying that. but i have flabby arms? lol. well i think this will be the first and the last that i’ll wear this to the office on casual day. :(

Dont be self conscious :(

well but i don’t mind. i’m chubby and i got some meat on my bones! lol. but in this society, skinny is still the best and hottest…

i think i should put my jacket on. to lessen the stares

They probably just had skin shock if that’s the only bare skin in the room.